How do I know if I've found the right guy?

It's all about the vibe! If you feel comfortable, happy, and can be yourself around him, that's a great sign. Trust your gut feelings, they're usually spot on.

What if I keep choosing the wrong guys?

We've all been there! Take a step back and think about what truly matters to you in a relationship. Sometimes, changing the type of person you look for can make all the difference.

Is there such a thing as a 'perfect guy'?

No one is perfect, and that's completely okay! What's important is finding someone whose imperfections you can embrace and who complements your life.

Can I trust my friends' opinions about my relationship?

Your friends know you well and sometimes see things you might miss. However, it's your relationship, so weigh their advice carefully and make decisions that feel right for you.

How long should I wait before deciding he's the right guy?

There's no magic timeline. Some people know quickly, while others take more time. The key is to move at a pace that feels right for you and to ensure you're both on the same page.

Finding the Right Guy often seems impossible. It seems like all the girls these days are trying to find the right man. Good men seem to be few and far between, but let me assure you they ARE out there. I married one myself! And I know lots of girls who have found genuine, sincere men who love them and treat them well. And let me assure you, they are out there for you too! It may be a long time coming, but sometimes the best things take time. Think of a baby. It takes nine months to form! Or a savings account. It takes a while to accumulate those pennies, but who doesn't love a fat wad of cash? But even though there are plenty of men out there, they're not all the RIGHT one for you. So I've made a list with 7 tips to finding the right guy. If you've had lousy luck lately, there could be a few things you need to tweak! Keep on reading for 7 tips to finding the right guy!

Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

Want more like this? Subscribe for personalized picks.

Successfully subscribed.

Check your inbox for personalized content.

1. Guys do Want Relationships

I think one mistake girls make when they go looking for guys is thinking that men don't want a real relationship. So they end up settling for flings or one night stands, thinking that's all they will ever be able to get. I'm here to disprove that theory! Guys DO want relationships, and as long as you're the type of girl who flits around, they will never respect you enough to settle down. So stop thinking that men don't want to be with you for longer than one night, and start holding out for somebody great! That's how you find the right guy.

2. Mr. Wrong Might Know Mr. Right

Mr. Wrong Might Know Mr. Right One tip to finding the right guy is to keep his number. Don't toss it out as soon as it's "over." One thing many girls overlook is that just because one guy doesn't work out for you, that doesn't mean his friends wouldn't! Mr. Wrong might be friends with Mr. Right! So keep in touch with your guy friends and hang out periodically to see if they have any hot men-friends you'd like to get to know a little better!

3. Don't Try so Hard

Don't Try so Hard If you want a tip to finding the right guy, here it is: Stop trying so hard to make it happen. Desperation often results in settling for whatever comes your way, and that's never good. It will happen when it's time and not before then. You don't need to throw yourself on every guy you see without a ring on his hand in order to find the right guy. Just be patient and wait. Good things DO come to those who wait, you'll see!

4. There's Nothing Wrong with Having Standards

There's Nothing Wrong with Having Standards I always tell my single friends that there is no need to settle. It's a good idea to have a "list" of "criteria" you would like a guy to meet. You don't need to just be content to have a man who has no job, no interest in ever having a job or trade of any kind and likes to play XBox all day and party all night. But at the same time, keep your "list" and "criteria" loose. If you have such high standards that no guy will ever be able to meet them, you may end up alone forever! Remember that guys are human just like you and give them some space to live. Also, don't pass by a perfectly nice guy with your nose in the air just because you think you deserve a prince or a king.

If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.

5. There Are Plenty of Fish in the Sea

One tip to finding the right guy is to remember there are plenty of fish in the sea. Yes, broken hearts take time to mend and relationships that end on a bad note can hurt for a good while. But there ARE other men out there, men who will treat you right and love you the most. Don't write off all men in the world as jerks-there are some pretty cool dudes out there just waiting to be discovered!

6. Be the Kind of Girl a Guy Would Want

If you're really serious about finding the right man, here's a big tip to keep in mind: You need to be the kind of girl a guy would WANT to have. That doesn't mean you need to be someone you're not. But if you constantly have a bad attitude, a sour expression or critical words, no guy is going to want to be around that. And most guys who look for lasting relationships aren't going to want a girl who does nothing but party all the time and liver her life in less-than-ladylike clothing. Try to be the type of girl a guy would want as his long-term girlfriend if you're serious!

7. Look in the Right Places

Look in the Right Places One big mistake women make when it comes to finding the right guy is that they look in all the wrong places. Bars, clubs, online dating website and your local AAA group meeting are not ideal places to find serious guys. Now, I don't mean to put down anyone who takes part in these places or belittle anyone who is in a relationship with a guy they met in one of these places! I'm just saying, on a general basis, guys who are serious or looking for a girlfriend/wife will not be hanging around these places.

I know that finding the right guy takes time and can sometimes be discouraging or disheartening when you don't get results right away. But let me encourage you to stay optimistic and never settle for less than what you deserve! You will be so happy you did when you do finally find the right man. I hope that my tips on finding the right guy have been helpful. Do you have any tips to share about finding the right guy? Please comment below, and thank you for reading!

Top Image Source: data.whicdn.com

Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

Want more like this? Subscribe for personalized picks.

Successfully subscribed.

Check your inbox for personalized content.

Feedback Junction

Where Thoughts and Opinions Converge

Jenna
2012-12-01T05:11:22.000Z
WOW. Discovering this list was perfect timing. It was nothing like I thought it would be(bs)... haha I dont even know what to think lol Great.Thanks for the good advice
Anonymous
2011-10-18T15:16:45.000Z
I agree with 7.) Look in the Right Places: "Bars, clubs, online dating website and your local AAA group meeting are not ideal places to find serious guys." When I was younger, I would always talk to men at bars and clubs...but when I left to go home and they would ask for my number I would give them a fake one. I knew better (even during my college days) that men at bars and clubs are not worth your time once you exit the bar or club to go home--all they are looking for is to get laid that night--nothing more. You aren't going to meet any serious guy at these places--trust me--I went to college and I've been there. Just pick up your handbag (and watch your drink all night) and go home--alone. Don't try to continue anything from that bar or club--leave it there. As for online dating sites...I've never done them. I have always believed in meeting a man by chance. I have a lot of friends who have dated online and 99.9% of the stories I have heard regarding online dating are all bad. I only know one person who meet their "match" online and it was my nerdy cousin who is a teacher--he met another nerdy teacher and they are now engaged. That was the only story of success I have though. Online dating is pretty much the new bar and club scene for 2011...pick someone up for drinks and sex and thats about it. Ladies...get out there and be social. Meet men the old fashioned way...face to face. No bars or clubs need apply!
Anonymous
2012-02-25T03:22:55.000Z
I like a guy who is one of my best friends. I really really like him a lot and I can imagine us together and my close friends all say that we'd be a cute couple. The other day I told him over text that I like him but he told my best friend that he wouldn't be able to go out with me because he thinks that we are good friends. He also told me that too when I asked him a few days later. We go to school together and we act like nothing happened most of the time, but sometimes he flirts with me and asks me to call him and stuff and it gets me really confused. I am happy that we're still friends but he is confusing me and we have only ever spoken about this by text. I don't know what to do, whether I should give up or just ask him out one time to put my mind at ease. It's like I'm not willing to accept the fact that he wouldn't go out with me or I can't believe it. If you think I should get over him, how do you get over someone?
CP
2012-03-10T04:27:54.000Z
There is this guy that I go back and forth with liking, but thats not my problem. The problem is he always wants a picture of me, nothing inappropriate at all just one of me smiling or wearing my hair a different way. And when I tell him I don't want to he keeps asking over and over again, and it makes me feel uncomfortable when he asks. I'm only 13 btw, and when I ask him if he likes me he says no and I know the girl he likes, but I wonder if he asks for her picture too.
Anonymous
2012-06-21T08:30:31.000Z
As a guy the comments on "don't look like you're a clubbing professional" or something like that are right on. We love smokin bodies but unless your 22 you realize the intent there is directed at any and every man out there. Looking awesome is one thing dressing specifically for attention (if u do this it's the wrong kind trust me) is another. We will decide in 20 seconds whether there's potential. My advice is get a # and call in a few days to say hey. Texting is ok but any man worthwhile would respect a call and more personal touch
AJ
2012-04-06T14:14:37.000Z
Excellent article! I know many of my female friends could benefit from this! I would also add joining a local gym to try to look for Mr. Right. Maybe sign up for an exercise class or self defense class. That way you would start off with at least one common interest. Aside from that, I would encourage the ladies to not give up and remember that there really are plenty of fish out there. If things don't work out with one guy, remember this from sales 101: some will, some won't, so what, next
Anonymous
2011-10-15T06:26:19.000Z
so my friend tells me that my standards for a guy are way to high (nice eyes,nice,sweet,tall,and strong) i think she may be right because i still dont have a boyfriend what do you girls think?