One-sided relationships are so hard to be in, but what happens if you don't know you're in one? How can you tell? Well girls, I've got your covered, below are the top 20 signs that you are unfortunately … in a one-sided relaitonship and you'll need to get out of it ASAP.
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1. You're Always the One to Reach out First
… and it sucks.
2. You Have to Avoid Certain Topics of Conversation
Because they don't feel comfortable.
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3. You 'pencil' Things in …
...you never can use pen because nothing is certain.
4. You Make ALL the Plans
Your 'partner' doesn't even care enough to make plans for you.
5. You're a Last Resort...
They are ALWAYS choosing their friends over you.
6. You're Constantly Apologizing for Things That You Shouldn't Be
Meaning, your partner is probably making you feel bad for everything.
7. Your Partner is Constantly Disrespecting You
...and you know it.
8. There Are a Ton of Rules in Your Relationship
That somehow, you can never seem to follow correctly.
9. Your Relationship is Actually a Secret
… You've only met their roommate and that's because you stay over once in a while.
10. There Isn't Any Future Talk from Your Partner
You don't talk about marriage, kids – nothing, just what's happening right now.
11. You've Tried to Meet Your Boyfriend's Friends …
...but there is always an excuse.
12. Fighting is Normal in a Relationship Right?
… All the time? Every day?
13. They Only Compliment You on Your Looks
… not your wit, not your personality, not anything but your looks.
14. Your Partner Probably Wouldn't Be with You if They Didn't Need to Be with Someone
… and you know it.
15. You're Always Dropping Everything when They Need You
Even if it is a family thing.
16. When It Comes to Spending Quality Time Together...
...they make you feel like shit about it and they hurry it along.
17. They Act like Communicating with You is a Hassle
Even if it is just a simple text.
18. You Feel Horrible Asking Them to Things That Are Important to You
Especially when it has to do with work.
19. You Feel the Need to Explain Your Boy/girlfriend to Your Family
Because … they are worried about you.
20. You Make EVERY Effort in the World to Invite Your Partner into Your World
… and they just don't care.
Comments
Sahar: How about it if it was your husband not your boyfriend ?
Wendy: Aww oh sorry to hear that !
Steph5: Everything in this article happened to me in my last relationship ... It was awful.
Sofia: And I don’t want to leave him because it’s a lot harder than what it seems
imfabulousLMAO: All of these hit so hard...
Sofia: I’m having these same problems and I’ve been with my boyfriend for 3 years now. I don’t even know what to do cause I try to talk it out with him and it just seems like nothing works anymore. What should I do?
ᗩᑎGEᒪᗩ: All very true! Of course, the very worst thing to do is stay, especially if everything (or the majority) listed is true! You can't make someone like you or care about you/your feelings. By staying, you're only hurting yourself & your self-esteem. The longer you stay, the harder it is to leave. Do yourself a favor & leave now b/c no one deserves to be treated badly &/or used.
peony: 1and 2 is so true!
Bunny: If this is the case I will simply shake him out of my heart and sould as if he never existed
imfabulousLMAO: Lmao been there and it stunk.
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