Do you feel like your partner isn’t interested in you anymore? You can’t remember the last time that he was super turned on by you. Maybe he hardly says hello when he comes home. You try to do something special. Plan dinners and outings and maybe even buy him some gifts. But nothing works.
I have news for you: He’s not looking for a person to orbit around him. He wants YOU. He fell for you because of who you are, your quirks, and your passion. The rule to remember is that a person can only enjoy and love you as much as you enjoy and love yourself. Use the following five tips to breathe life back into your relationship.
1. Find Your Passion
Start doing the things that you enjoy and engage in life from there. Enjoy these things in your free time, which should also include the time that he’s around. If you like listening, singing, and dancing to music, do it.
2. Get Yourself out of the House
Take a class or something and make some plans with your friends. Do anything and everything that you enjoy.
3. Dress for Yourself
Wear things that you like wearing and that make you feel sexy. Don’t be afraid of looking sexy, even if you’re just cleaning the house. You’ll get his attention more if you feel sexy on the inside instead of just trying to impress him.
4. Make Family Time
If you have children, and you are tied to the house without much freedom, start to engage with them more deeply. You can do a lot of fun things with your kids at home and around town. You will end up being fun to be around. You will also hopefully create a closer relationship with the entire family.
5. Invite Him to Join You, but Be Fine with Being on Your Own
Invite your man with you when you are having fun, but don’t take it personally if he doesn’t want to. Make sure you are persistent in enjoying yourself.
If you have tried these things and you have noticed that your life is changing for the better, but your man is still acting cold around you, talk to him. Let him know you miss him and the connection. There could be something going on his life and you may need to talk to a counselor to figure it out.