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My flirting days are over, but I remember how awkward I was when I used to try.

I mean, I was just terrible.

I'm still awkward – and I lied, I flirt often and well with my wife, but that's just because she finds my awkwardness appealing.

You'll find someone whose awkward fits with yours, too, I promise.

In the meantime, try these flirting tips.

They ought to help, even if you're awkward AF.

1. Counteract Your Awkwardness with Confidence

Counteract Your Awkwardness with Confidence

And if you have to fake it 'til you make it, that's cool.2

When you're confident, everyone tends to believe it.

2. Try to Slip in Some Great Conversation

Try to Slip in Some Great Conversation

You know interesting things, right?

You might hate small talk, but that's all good.

Use your weird trivia tidbits as conversation starters.

3. Eye Contact is Important …

fashion, screenshot,

Hard, but important.

Practice in the mirror, or with your BFF.

4. … but Not Too Much

… but Not Too Much

Practice this, too.

Or, rather, practice not doing this.

You don't want to come off like a creeper.

5. Strategically Place Yourself in a Hottie's Vicinity

Strategically Place Yourself in a Hottie's Vicinity

Interested in somebody?

Pretend you're a chess piece.

Edge closer, put yourself in your crush's line of sight – but again, don't be creepy!2

6. Ask an Easy Question to Get Things Going

Ask an Easy Question to Get Things Going

Make sure it's open-ended, too.

Try to avoid yes or no question.

7. Bring out the Pearly Whites

Bring out the Pearly Whites

Flash that smile!

That's actually an excellent way to give yourself a quick confidence boost, too.3

8. Don't Stress Too Much

Don't Stress Too Much

It's not a big deal.

None of this is the end of the world.

Try to stay relaxed.

It makes everything so much easier.

9. Embrace Your Awkwardness

Embrace Your Awkwardness

You need to be totally cool with who you are.

Make your awkwardness work for you.

Find your groove.

10. Let Your Quirks Shine

Let Your Quirks Shine

They're more interesting than you think they are.

Yep, other people will think so, too.

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