I know that it can be really difficult dealing with a flirtatious boyfriend, but there are ways that you can do it and not let it ruin your relationship. If you aren't a flirty person, you might have a really hard time dealing with a flirtatious boyfriend because you have no idea how to relate to him. Well, I've got all of the tips that will really help, when your boyfriend is flirty and you still want to be with him!
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1. Open Lines of Communication
One of the biggest things to keep in mind when you're dealing with a flirtatious boyfriend is to keep all of the lines of communication open. You don't want to hide things and you don't him to hide things. Keeping all of the lines open is going to ensure that your relationship is going to last!
2. Question Him about Why He is Flirty
It's not okay for him to be flirty all of the time, but if he is, why don't you ask him about it? See if it is just part of his personality or if it is something that he just does for attention. Ask him exactly what he needs from you to get him to stop being so flirty. Questioning him isn't a horrible thing to do and again, it all boils down to keeping the lines of communication open!
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3. Think about Your Relationship
When you're in a relationship with a flirty boyfriend, it's hard – but it's not impossible! You've got to take some time and think about your relationship and what you want it to look like. Never, ever just think that because he is flirty with other people, he automatically wants to be with them.
4. Keep Your Emotions in Check
When dealing with a flirtatious boyfriend, you've got to consider your emotions. You could be getting upset for all of the wrong reasons! He's flirty, yes, but that doesn't mean that you've got to constantly be upset about it. Keep your emotions in check!
5. Don't Ask Him to Change
You've got to be confident enough in your relationship not to constantly ask your boyfriend to change. Most likely, he's been flirty since the beginning and you haven't noticed. Don't ask him for a change, instead, keep the lines of communication open and just trust that he won't do anything.
6. Build a Strong Foundation
When you're in a relationship, you've probably taken the time out to really build a strong foundation of your relationship. This is probably a foundation that is built on trust, which means that no matter how flirty your guy is, he's going to come home with you! Just keep that in mind, girls and boys!
7. Trust in Him
Finally, trust him! It's really okay for you to let loose and trust your guy if he hasn't given you any reason not to. Once you start to really trust him, you've got to remember that he isn't going anywhere. Just because he's flirty, that doesn't mean anything. Just have trust that nothing is ever going to happen and that your relationship is going to be okay.
So girls, are you dealing with a flirty boyfriend? Have you tried any of these tips? Give 'em up and let us know how they work for you!
Comments
Selena: Good article i'll try the tips 😊
Lezlie: I love your articles :)
Jasmine: My boyfriend was flirt and ten he dumped me and told my best friend he had feelings for her :/
Bonita: Could you do an article/s ( tips, advices, etc...) about being a "strung along". I knew this guy for 3yrs we would talk almost everynight/day and we like eachother however for past 2yrs he kinda been MIA( he even blocked me off facebook). we hooked up here and there like once month. well I notice was with a girl on one his friends facebook pictures. turns out they are together. I asked my friends about this without mentioning he with someone. well one said its a bootycall, others think im a strung along sincethey know he likes me but whats me to focus in college. and that its okay for guy to date/ing other people while they like someone, its more like way for that someone to be with someone while the one they like is finishing whatever. and they said its not like we're married. I might sound like im alittle over reacting but I'm so new to the dating world( I'm 21yrs old). I also met a couple that they told me that before they got married she was strung along cause she didn't want to be too distracted with relationship while she was in college. now they are married for 3yrs and they are been together ever since. So yea that would be helpful also I'm a Capricorn and the guy I like is a Scorpio.
cupcake: I love what you wright and it always helps me Thank you
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