Ask any guy what one of the best feelings in the world is, and I can guarantee that nearly all of them will talk about blowjobs! Oral sex is the king of foreplay, and it can really make all the difference between having an average sexual encounter and having a world-shaking sexual encounter, but that is only, of course, if you know how to do it right! It might seem like a very simple procedure, but believe me, there is a long list of dos and do nots when it comes to blowjobs! Here are some blowjob mistakes that you should definitely avoid!
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1. Literally Blowing
This is a real rookie mistake, but under no circumstances should you actually be blowing anything at all! Blowing into a guy’s penis can have some serious negative effects. I know the name might be confusing, but trust me, you need to keep to sucking for this one!
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Goes without saying, air should not be introduced into the blood circulation, as it can lead to an embolism which is potentially life-threatening. While the likelihood might be low, it's definitely not a risk worth taking. Stick to what you know is safe and pleasurable. Gentle suction and the use of your mouth and tongue will be more than enough to make the experience enjoyable for your partner. Remember, the goal is mutual pleasure and safety, so avoid incorporating any risky actions like blowing air that could have dire consequences.
2. No Communication
Don’t just get down there and start doing your thing without communicating with your man first. Ask him what he likes, what he wants you to do, basically pay him the same courtesy as you would want him to pay you if the roles were reversed! The more you can communicate, the better the experience will be for both of you.
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Communication is key in any intimate encounter. Listen to his responses—both his words and his body language. If he seems to enjoy something, keep that in mind. If he suggests a change, don’t take offense; it’s about mutual pleasure, not a one-way street. Encourage him to speak up during the act, too. It might feel awkward to talk about it at first, but it’ll lead to a more fulfilling and enjoyable experience for both of you. Remember, it's about exploring together and finding out what works best for your unique connection.
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3. Lip Product
Lipstick looks sexy, but all it does it make a hell of a mess if you are wearing too much and go in for the oral! You don’t want your man’s junk to look like some sort of red smeared murder scene after you are done!
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Certainly, stick to lip stains or balms that won't transfer to your partner's body. A non-greasy, non-sticky formula is perfect for keeping things sexy and clean. Plus, you'll avoid the awkwardness of leaving your mark in places you never intended to. Remember, a good balm can keep your lips soft and kissable for the action without any unwanted aftermath. Just because something looks good on your lips doesn't mean it should end up anywhere else. Keep it neat, keep it tidy, and keep the focus on the pleasure, not the clean-up!
4. No Hands
Sure, it’s called oral sex, but that doesn’t mean your hands should be down by your sides the whole time! Get them involved and do some cupping and stroking along with your mouth movements to really send him over the top in terms of pleasure.
5. Teeth
For god’s sake, mind your teeth! It can be very easy to forget that you have dozens of little hard, sharp objects in your own mouth, but he will definitely remind you if you snag something! Be as gentle as possible to avoid completely killing the mood with an unintentional chomp!
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Remember, your mouth is not the only one in play here. Those pearly whites may seem innocent, but they're like little daggers to his sensitive parts. Think of your teeth as tools for teasing, not terrorizing. You want to glide over him with the faintest contact that suggests the edge of danger, not dive into a dental disaster. Keep it light and easy - your attentiveness to this little detail can turn a potential nightmare into a dreamy experience both of you can enjoy. So play nice, and keep those bites for your sandwiches!
6. Deep
Don’t make the mistake of trying to go too deep on his penis, because what might follow if your gag reflex gets triggered is the exact opposite of sexy! Gagging and maybe even throwing up is not worth trying to fit an extra inch in your mouth, so just be happy with what you can do and make up for any missed areas with your hands!
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Remember, it's not about depth but rather technique and enthusiasm. You can deliver a mind-blowing experience without acting like a human sword swallower. Get creative with your tongue, vary the pressure and the rhythm, and use those luscious lips of yours. Combine these with a mix of delicate hand movements to cover more ground, and rest assured, there will be plenty of fireworks without the unnecessary discomfort for either of you. Plus, staying in control means you'll feel more confident, and confidence is downright sexy.
7. Balls
Don’t forget about his balls! They are just as sensitive as his penis, if not more so, so you can really drive him wild if you share some of your mouth skills with that area too. Both you hands and you tongue should be acquainted with his balls at some point or another!
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Paul: Consider coming from above while on top of him. The angle will be better for you, and he will get to enjoy your breasts rubbing against his abdomen and placing you in the perfect position for him to return the favor.
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