Signs ๐Ÿ’Ÿโ˜ฎ๏ธ You Aren't Really ๐Ÿ˜• in Love โค๏ธ like You Thought ...

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So youโ€™re in love.

But are you?

Really?

Ask anyone and their definition of love will be different, but everyone will certainly recognize it when it hits them.

The thing about love, however, is that no matter which way you define it for yourself, it can trick you.

Your definition might be flawed or youโ€™re desperate for it, so you misinterpret what youโ€™re feeling.

Iโ€™ve got some signs youโ€™re not really in love you might need to consider.

1. It is Always about You?

Good,Morning,But,How,are,

Self-absorbed people and vain people have a lot of trouble loving another person.

They may feel a lot of affection for another person, and may even feel that the other person is their โ€œone,โ€ but they find it hard to be in love with somebody.

When you are in love, you put the other person before yourself.

You would take a bullet for that person and give them your lungs because they take your breath away.2

If you are self-absorbed or self-obsessed, you are probably not in love.2

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ToriJeanne
I actually really disagree with this. I kissed another guy once. My parents split up and kicked me out and I had just had a miscarriage, I had been smoking pot, and I drank too much. And situational depression causes poor decision making. I was tired, depressed, high, drunk, and in the wrong place.I love my partner more than anything and hurting him was something I immediately regretted. We're still together to this day, and I didn't stop loving him for even a second.
Hayley
Zoรซ & Alfie!
Jeanette
Like always Neecey your posts are a great read - thanks ๐Ÿ˜˜
Rebecca
Point on!!!
Jas Hobert
Why the picture of Zoรซ and Alfie though lol?
cletis
This is probably one of the best posts I've read on this website
peony blue
Some true not all. It also all depends. Even though that men who stare at other women are harmless some women still don't like it so it all depends.
Tamara
Sorry about the double post everyone. I wasn't sure if the original one went through. Sasa you are quite accurate. Love is complicated. What works with one partner will not work with the other partner. Being in a relationship is hard work.
Tamara
There are signs of falling in and out of love. The article never claimed to be a constitution of love. It simply puts things into perspective. As Nancy suggested people change. I also agree with Cassieculbreth the article is well researched. Great job as usual! @TheYellow1 #12 is hilarious really!
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