4. If You Aren’t Forcing Things, You’re in Love. if You Find Yourself Making Too Much of an Effort, You Think You’re in Love

If You Aren’t Forcing Things, You’re in Love. if You Find Yourself Making Too Much of an Effort, You Think You’re in Love

Relationships require effort, but loving him shouldn't be an effort.

You can't force feelings.

If You Feel Unconditional Affection for Your Partner, You’re in Love. if His or Her Quirks Bother You, You Think You’re in Love

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Latorya
Absolutely agree with Mandy
Bunny
Some people feel deeply in love but hide their feelings to protect themselves such as the case with scorpio people!
Sara
I agree with Mandy
Dolly
yes yes yes!!!
Mandy C
I don't agree with this at all. Love is not something you should rely on to make you happy, only YOU can make yourself happy. It's a definite no that you should be thinking about the other person all the time. Seriously, how are you going to be successful if your constantly thinking about the guy you "love"? Not to mention, if you're a mother, then that's definitely out of the question. You barely have time to think about anything except your kids, I'm sure! And why on earth would you EVER change for someone else. Seriously, who knows whether or not the person you love today will be the person you love tomorrow? If you change for them, you'll never recognize that girl I the mirror. I'm sorry, but I'm really shocked that you'd advertise a message as sexist and biased as this, and label it "real love". Why on earth would you tell a girl that something as simple as believing in your Independent self is not loving the other person enough. No freaking way -- love yourself first, love others second. You might need to make sacrifices, but make wise ones. And for goodness sakes, if you think you love someone, who is to actually say you don't?!
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