LDR's are really hard to go through. I met my wife ten years ago this year and we met online and were long distance for over two years. It sucks but it is so, so worth it once you two are finally together. If you are in a LDR, don't worry! It gets better, especially if you follow the below tips!
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1. You Need to Send Selfies
This will make it seem like you two aren't even apart.
2. Play Games Together
Quizzes, video games, anything that is fun. Date night can be game night!
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3. You Can't Keep Your Feelings inside
If there is something bothering you, you've GOT to spill it. Seriously.
4. Have Conversations CONSTANTLY
This is how you are going to last. For serious.
5. Create a Private Blog and Share Your Thoughts Together
Great idea! Especially nowadays.
6. Talk on Instant Messenger (gchat Works Great!)
I did this with my wife!
7. Skype Yourselves to Sleep
And sleep on Skype.
8. Keep a Picture of Them on Your Phone …
That way you can feel like they are right there.
9. And Change It out Weekly to Keep It Fresh
..and change it often. It'll help close the distance!
10. Never, Ever End a Conversation with Resentment
This is a big one! Pay attention.
11. Don't Keep Score on Who Visits More Often
Someone will always visit more, the other person should make up for that.
12. … the One That Doesn't Visit as Often, Should Make More of an Effort
Text more, call more, write more. If you can't visit, make sure that your partner knows you are invested.
13. Do NOT Play Power Games
This is huge! You can't keep a long distance relationship if you are constantly playing with power.
14. You've Got to Have Trust
Being in a long distance relationship is ALL about trust, especially nowadays with Facebook, Instagram, Tumblr, Twitter. You should trust your partner completely, otherwise, why are you with them?
15. Phone Sex
It's needed. Period. It's needed.
16. Be Aware That You do Have a Life outside of Your Partner
Just because you are with your boyfriend or girlfriend, doesn't mean they control where you go. Just check in with them and let them know what your plans are.
17. Care Packages
Oh god, I did this a LOT when my wife and I were long distance. Notice, I said wife – we made it!
Comments
Amaia: Is phone sex actually that important? This concerns me.😔
Christinadoidge: Suck me
TieiaM: My husband is out of the country 6 months out of the year. I agree with these!
Allyfedor: This is true, most of these are what failed my last long distance relationship
Terri: He’s married
cherry: hello, i have LDR bf for about 4months now... but i wonder sometimes if he already have a gf or maybe married because we can chat nonstop during work hours but when at night time and during weekends, we do not chat anymore
Amini: Phone sex was a thing at the beginning but it somehow lost its appeal sadly
Gwendy: Everything just fail..
Renee: I was in a LDR, we broke up 3 months ago & I miss him so much 😩
Chic: Hmmmm
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