How to Spring Clean Your Relationship to Spruce It up ...

How to Spring Clean Your Relationship to Spruce It up ...
By Heather • Mar 29, 2024 MD

Sometimes, you need to spruce up your relationship. Sometimes you need to go through a deep scrubbing process. If you are anything like me, you've been dreading it. Now that it's spring, it's time to get to work on your relationship with your spouse. Come on girls, let's get cleaning!

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1. Start the Conversations You've Been Dreading

Start the Conversations You've Been Dreading You have a lot of pent up resentment? It's time to let it all out! Open up all of the closet doors for this one.

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2. … That Includes the Frustrations

… That Includes the Frustrations Also, these conversations should include the frustrations you have. You should put it all out in the open.

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3. Throw out What Isn't Working

Throw out What Isn't Working Nagging your partner about exercising? Stop. Instead, ask them to walk with you at night; it'll be fun!

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4. Drop Any Negative Behaviors

Drop Any Negative Behaviors Seriously, look at the positive and stop the negative in your relationship!

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If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.

5. Wash Away Every Old Hurt

Wash Away Every Old Hurt No more holding a grudge. Get rid of it!

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6. Schedule and Keep Date Nights

Schedule and Keep Date Nights This is my problem. We schedule them and then are way, way too tired. Keep your relationship commitments!

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7. Explore the Changes of the Seasons Together

Explore the Changes of the Seasons Together Remember, you are spring cleaning your relationship, why not enjoy spring a little bit?

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8. Create Some New Energy

Create Some New Energy I promise you, changing up everything in your relationship is huge! Write a new script.

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9. Stop Expecting and Start to Allow

Stop Expecting and Start to Allow You've got to let go of the worry that people in your life have got to be a certain way, a way you think.

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10. Hello, Goodbye, See Ya

Hello, Goodbye, See Ya How do you greet your partner? How do you say goodbye? Change it! Seriously, add in a smile or a kiss to your greeting.

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11. Up Your Flirting Game with Your Partner

Up Your Flirting Game with Your Partner Sometimes, especially when we've been with our partner for a while, we forget how to flirt.

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12. Thoughtful Things Go a Really, Really Long Way

Thoughtful Things Go a Really, Really Long Way Be thoughtful. Be considerate. Always!

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13. Stop Having the Same Conversations

Stop Having the Same Conversations Instead, start new ones. Uncover new things about your partner.

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14. Establish Some Healthy Boundaries

Establish Some Healthy Boundaries Trust me, they will help you.

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15. Find a Balance with Your Spouse

Find a Balance with Your Spouse Have deep conversations, have fun, get well-rounded.

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16. Affection Needs to Be a Focus

Affection Needs to Be a Focus Seriously. It needs to.

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17. Continue the Cleaning, the Scrubbing

Continue the Cleaning, the Scrubbing Commit to it!

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  • Sara

    2016-05-29T15:06:47.145Z

    Opp liv
  • Sara

    2016-05-29T15:06:54.587Z

    AXvzj
  • Mariam

    2016-05-29T08:45:46.142Z

    What kind of brush do we scrub with??
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    2016-05-29T10:28:14.970Z

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