7 Tips to Finding the Right Guy ...

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Finding the Right Guy often seems impossible.

It seems like all the girls these days are trying to find the right man.2

Good men seem to be few and far between, but let me assure you they ARE out there.

I married one myself!

And I know lots of girls who have found genuine, sincere men who love them and treat them well.

And let me assure you, they are out there for you too!

It may be a long time coming, but sometimes the best things take time.2

Think of a baby.

It takes nine months to form!

Or a savings account.

It takes a while to accumulate those pennies, but who doesn't love a fat wad of cash?

But even though there are plenty of men out there, they're not all the RIGHT one for you.

So I've made a list with 7 tips to finding the right guy.

If you've had lousy luck lately, there could be a few things you need to tweak!3

Keep on reading for 7 tips to finding the right guy!

1. Guys do Want Relationships

Guys do Want Relationships

I think one mistake girls make when they go looking for guys is thinking that men don't want a real relationship.

So they end up settling for flings or one night stands, thinking that's all they will ever be able to get.

I'm here to disprove that theory!

Guys DO want relationships, and as long as you're the type of girl who flits around, they will never respect you enough to settle down.

So stop thinking that men don't want to be with you for longer than one night, and start holding out for somebody great!

That's how you find the right guy.

Mr. Wrong Might Know Mr. Right

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Heather
These are great! Thanks so much for the comments! :)
Whitterbug7
Hey, ladies. So I thought since everyone's throwing out their dating issues and advice... I'd throw out some of my experiences. I have tried the online dating sight Plenty Of Fish a couple of times, met two seemingly decent guys, went on dates, and started a relationship with one of them that lasted about two months. The conclusion I gathered from online dating is that, more likely than not, you won't find a guy who is patient and looking for a lasting relationship. Most of the guys on there are bored and looking for someone to come over and "hang out". They are not serious about sharing their life with someone or building a best friend/lover relationship. They just want someone they can text when they are bored and meet up with when they're bored. Some ways you can tell if that's all they want is as follows: 1.) They ask you sexually-charged questions right off the bat (such as how many guys you been with, what positions do you do or like doing, etc.) instead of asking what your basic interests and hobbies are (like what's your favorite movie, music, type of food). 2.) They don't seem interested in sharing about themselves or relating to you. For example: You may ask a guy "how was your day?" and all he says is "Ok." or "Boring." He doesn't want to share his feelings about his day. But by saying "Ok" or "Boring," he's getting your simpathy so you will feel like cheering him up and he will use that opportunity to try to persuade you to come cheer him up and make his day less "boring." 3.) If everytime you get a text from him it's about him being stressed and needing to relax, he's just looking to relieve his sexual tension. 4.) If he never asks how your day was or never takes interest in your goings on, he's only using you for his momentary amusement. He doesn't want to concern himself because he's not emotionally invested in you. 5.) If he doesn't always text you back, then says, "Sorry I haven't texted in a few days, I've just been so busy! I'm exhausted!" No one is too busy to send a five second little text to let someone know they are thinking of them. He wasn't thinking of you. Only when he is in the mood for some action did he suddenly think of you. I hope these five warning signs will help some of you cut through the B.S. and find a guy who is genuinely looking for a life partner/friend/ lover/confidante/playmate, and not just a booty call. Don't let them fool ya ladies. If they are interested in you for more than a booty call, they will do whatever it takes to get you and you won't feel like you are the only one trying. It takes TWO to tango... it takes TWO to love. Can't be just one-sided. So if you find yourself trying too hard to keep a guy interested in you for more than just sex, odds are he's only into you for the sex.
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