17 Ways Your Man πŸ‘¨πŸΌπŸ‘¨πŸ½πŸ‘¨πŸΏπŸ‘¨πŸ» Should Respect ✌🏼 You in the Bedroom πŸ› ...

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You shouldn't have sex with someone, unless you're completely comfortable with them.3

If he makes you feel uneasy in any way, then you should keep your clothes on around him, whether he's your boyfriend or not.

After all, you deserve to be treated right.

Here are a few ways that he should be respectful in the bedroom:

1. Lets You Set the Pace

Lets You Set the Pace

He shouldn't push you to move faster than you want to move.

If you want to make-out for months before taking the next step, then he should respect that.3

2. Wears a Condom

Wears a Condom

There's no excuse for refusing to wear a condom.

It doesn't matter if he thinks sex feels better without it, or if he swears that he's clean.

No matter what, he should wear a condom to keep you safe from STDs and pregnancies.

3. Gets Tested for STDs

Gets Tested for STDs

If you ask him to get tested, then he should get tested.

There's nothing wrong with wanting proof that the person you're sleeping with is free from diseases.

4. Waits for You to Consent

Waits for You to Consent

He doesn't automatically have permission to sleep with you, just because you're his girlfriend or because your clothes are off or because you got him hard.

He needs to wait for you to consent to sex before he initiates it.

5. Respects Your Boundaries

Respects Your Boundaries

He should respect your boundaries, even if he doesn't agree with them.

It's the least that he can do if he actually cares about you.

6. Refuses to Guilt You

Refuses to Guilt You

He shouldn't guilt you into sleeping with him by saying that all of his friends are doing it, or that he deserves to get laid, since he treats you so well.

7. Talks to You about It Ahead of Time

Talks to You about It Ahead of Time

If he's smart, he'll talk to you about sex before you two actually have sex.

That's the only way he'll learn what you are and aren't comfortable with.

Has a Safe Word
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