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Honesty is the best policy.

If you aren't interested in a guy that is pursuing you, it's best to let him know right away.

Everyone knows that this topic just isn't an easy one, so what can you do to ease the awkwardness?

Knowing how to let a guy down easy will make things less painful with these top 7 tips on how to simply just say no thank you.

1. We Don't Have Much in Common

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This takes away from any misgivings.

He won't be left with the feeling that you're too good for him, that you think something is wrong with him, or anything along those lines.2

For a relationship to be great, two people need to have similarities.2

2. Relationships Aren't for Me

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This excuse will let him know right away that commitment and labels just aren't your thing.

If he thinks that you don't want to be with anyone, he'll back off with his dignity and confidence intact.

Nothing personal.

3. I Haven't Fully Recovered from a past Relationship

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He'll think that you've been hurt and need time to recover from a traumatic event in the past.

If he's left with the impression that you're possibly damaged goods, clingy, and needy, he'll probably take a step back.2

You're really the one dodging the bullet in this case.

4. My Career is My Top Priority

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Independence is important, but most men see it as a priority to be the bread winner of the family.

If your career takes a front seat in your life, he won't think twice if work is first in your life.

If he still isn't getting the picture, say you're going to be relocated within the next year or so, and that this isn't the best time to be in a future long distance relationship.

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