Are you looking for some ways to make anyone fall in love with you? Even if you’re not the most attractive person ever these tips will still work for you. People are like puzzles - there’s a trick or hidden code to unlocking their heart. It sounds corny, I know. The thing is everyone is missing something from their life or they’re still bruised from their childhood. Perhaps you can be the girl who will never leave them. Or you can be the guy who is the one who can fix what Maroon 5 calls her “broken smile”. Or perhaps you can be that person who sees them exactly how they want to be seen, rather than the broken person they sometimes feel like. Read on for the best ways to make anyone fall in love with you.
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1. Play Guitar for Them
Playing guitar is not as hard as you think and is one of the top ways to make anyone fall in love with you. Just try to master two simple love songs and you’ve probably got it down pat. And there are so many YouTube videos out there to give you instructions. Better yet, if you can write a really quick love song and dedicate it to her, then she’ll probably just throw herself at you. Good deal, right? If you are a female reading this, then you can follow this tip too. You probably look so adorable playing.
Video: Play 4 Love Songs with 4 Chords | Guitar Lesson | Easy Songs
2. Tell Them You Want to Know Everything about Them
And actually mean it. Ask them questions and hang on their every word. Don’t nod like a bobble head or say “wow” or “okay” after every sentence. That gets annoying. Ask them questions about their childhood and what kind of person they were in high school. Try not to ask too personal of questions. Save that for when you’re actually in a relationship.
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Be genuinely interested in their hobbies and passions, and encourage them to share more. Ask “What’s your dream vacation?” or “If you could have dinner with anyone in history, who would it be and why?” This will give you insight into their values and interests. Show enthusiasm and remember the little things they mention—it's those details that make them feel truly heard and cared for. Just be mindful not to turn it into an interrogation; let the conversation flow naturally.
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3. Be Slightly Hard to Get
You don’t want to come off as desperate. Nothing scares love away more than someone reeking of desperation. Remember, you’re trying to see if he or she is a good match for you as well. There must be some kind of balance between the two of you. All’s fair in love and war. So how do you prevent yourself from replying to his texts at lightning quick speed? Easy, try to have a life. I’m not kidding. Go workout or hang out with your gal pals. You’ll feel more balanced and saner if you try to have a life outside of him. Plus it’ll make him wonder about you.
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When keeping a hint of mystery about your availability, it’s not about playing games—it’s about showing that you are someone who values their time and has a rich, fulfilling life. Turn down an invitation or two, not because you want to be manipulative, but because you genuinely have other commitments. It’s sexy to have your own interests and it’s vital for a healthy relationship too. This approach will not only keep their interest piqued but also give you the space you need to evaluate how much they're willing to invest in pursuing you.
4. Be Good at Something and Try to Show It off in Front of Them
Trust me, it’s sexy. It doesn’t have to be anything too extreme. You don’t have to be like Ryan from The Office who did one-handed push-ups in front of Kelly. (However, we can all agree that was very hot.) If you can whip up a mean lasagna, never miss a free throw shot or drive a stick shift then, by all means, show her! Find some excuse. If you can start a fire using only one match, then take her on a camping trip. She’ll find it really hot.
If you’re a female then show him your mad scrapbooking skills, change a car tire, or that you can do the splits. He’ll be drooling in no time.
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Showcasing your talents can be a real game-changer. It's all about playing to your strengths and letting your skills shine. Imagine striking a chord on the guitar or flawlessly decorating cupcakes—whatever you excel at, let it be your love language. The key is to be subtle yet impactful. Remember, it's not just about impressing; it's sharing a slice of your passion. And who knows? You might just hit the perfect note or sweet spot that makes their heart skip a beat.
5. Show off Your Best Physique
You don’t necessarily need 6-pack abs or a bodacious set of boobs. Just make sure you’re toned, relatively strong (somewhat strong if you’re a female, the damsel in distress doesn’t work too well these days). Everyone is fairly attractive if they take some pride in their appearance. Shower regularly, get a haircut every few months, workout every week and you’ll be good as gold.
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Keeping up with your physique is not solely about vanity; it's about self-respect and radiating the confidence that comes with it. Whether you're into yoga, lifting weights, or simply enjoying regular walks, an active routine contributes to your overall allure. A healthy body language screams confidence and sparks a light of admiration in others' eyes. Even simple changes, like correcting your posture, can have significant effects. When you walk into a room standing tall, with your shoulders back and head held high, you exude a natural charisma that's undeniably attractive. After all, the body is the instrument that plays the melody of your presence.
6. Remember the Little Things They Say
This will make his or her heart pound for sure. Know if they are a Pepsi or Coke drinker, how they like their coffee, and how they like their eggs (or if they even like eggs). Memorize their phone number. This should be an easy one. Know how to spell their name. You’ll get docked points for sure if you forget they spell their name with a C instead of a K. The more trivial it is, the more seductive it will be when you prove to them that you actually know it about them. Pay attention to them in ways that no one ever has before. They’ll think you’re the one.
7. Sing to Them
Just make sure you aren’t off key and that you know the lyrics. This will make her heart melt. If you’re a guy reading this then some recommendations are "First Day Of My Life" by Bright Eyes or “Anyone Else But You” by the Moldy Peaches. If you’re a woman reading this then I highly recommend “But I Do Love You” by LeAnn Rimes. Try hitting up your local karaoke bar or maybe hum it to them randomly when you’re picking up around the house or in the kitchen getting dinner ready. Give them a wink if they notice.
8. Pick Her up and Twirl Her around
Sorry ladies, this is for guys only. The most appropriate times to do this is when she is sharing great news with you, like if she got a promotion at work or she beat her personal record at a 5K race she had been training for. Just try not to do it if she has just eaten or in a tight space. You don’t want to bash her head on a ceiling fan or the TV.
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