Every relationship goes through difficult times, but that doesn't always mean that they're doomed to fall apart. Sometimes what you need is some time apart. This can provide you both with space to consider your feelings for each other and your future together. You may in the end decide that it's not working, but equally you may realise that you truly love each other and want to be together. Here are some signs that you need some time apart - it doesn't have to be the end …
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1. You're Getting Impatient
Do you find yourself getting impatient with each other? This could be because your partner is starting to irritate you. That my be no fault of theirs, but could be a sign that you need some time away from them. A break could give you valuable time on your own, and the space to reflect on what you want from the relationship.
2. The Relationship is Becoming Dull
Most relationships get a bit dull after a while. In the early heady stage every moment together is exciting; the realities of daily life are much more mundane! So it's easy to let the relationship become routine and stale. Time apart can refresh your relationship and reinforce how strongly you feel about each other.
3. You're Not Sure Why You're Together
Perhaps you have doubts as to whether you're with the right partner, and secretly wonder if there's someone better out there for you. You know you love your partner, but you're not sure why, or if ending the relationship would be the right thing to do. Taking a break can help you clarify your feelings, and remind you what it is you love about them.
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Feeling uncertain about your partnership can signal a need to reassess without the pressure of constant interaction. A break offers the space to rediscover your individual passions, goals, and values. This time apart might just reignite the spark, as absence often makes the heart grow fonder. It allows you to reflect on your relationship with a clearer head, which can be difficult when you're always together. By taking a step back, you give yourself the opportunity to evaluate what each of you brings to the table and whether your partnership truly enriches your life.
4. You Feel Suffocated
So you've got a loving partner … a bit too loving. They want to spend every moment of every day with you. Feeling suffocated isn't good for a relationship, and can in fact push you in the opposite direction. But if you want to stay together, a break can actually force them to manage without you for a while, and show that you need your space.
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5. You Feel You're Missing out
If you've got a sense of missing out on something that you really want to do, but being in a relationship gets in the way, a break may help you to fill that missing gap. Perhaps you want to move away to study for a while, but your partner resents being left behind. You can still maintain a long-distance relationship, while working towards a goal you really want to achieve.
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6. You're Fighting All the Time
Constant fighting isn't a good sign, and wears you down. It feels as though all you ever do is argue, and you forget what attracted you to your partner. A break can really be beneficial in this situation, as it removes the opportunities to argue and gives you space to decide if you want to continue with the relationship.
7. It's Becoming One-Sided
Do you feel that you're the one making all the effort? Do you always make the arrangements for dates or vacations? Does your partner never ask about your life or how you're feeling? Take some space for both of you to reflect; they may realise that they're not putting enough effort into keeping you happy.
Do you think that a break is always final, or can it be a good thing?
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michel: @alexis i completely agree. Ive done a break before and its just a slow break up. If someone asks for a break theyre just scared or feel bad for breaking it off
Cutegirl0123: I'm thinking about a break as well with my boyfriend. I'm not sure what to do... I fell in love for the first time so this is upsetting but may end up being a positive experience..
Taylor: @Dana yeah this break has made me realize a lot of things. He still hasn't contacted me so he still doesn't know what he wants. It sucks because we've talked about our future together and how he would never leave me but now I don't know.
Brooke: @taylor Townsend can I ask how things turned out for you, going through something similar at the moment and just found this Thread
Dana: A break is sometimes a good thing. Helps to give perspective in a situation. Taylor Townsend I'm in your boat. I'm on a break too and I hate it but it's made me realize some things. Just give him his space. My bf called me to tell me he loved and missed me and I'm the one but we're still on the break. I suffocated him and now I'm focusing more on myself. I've gone out a couple of times but these guys are not him.
kissmebbylove: @Taylor Townsend stay strong girl. :)
Ayra: Compromise, compromise and compromise some more (applicable to both). Individuals who are looking for that perfect relationship are in for disappointment. I don't agree with breaks, if you need a 'break' (not talking about a day off to do your own thing etc) then you don't really want to be with each other. Having said that, Taylor Townsend I hope you prove me wrong ;) x
Taylor: @kissmebbylove yeah I'm not contacting him until he talks to me, I figured if he wants to talk to me then he will on his own time
Alexis: Honestly you should just break up..... Unless you are married or engaged
Banesa: My fiancé and I sometimes don't see eye to eye but we don't allow our different opinions of things change our feelings for one another. I'll admit, I am the one that can't get enough of him and even though I think that I get too clingy, I speak to him about it and he assures me that it doesn't bother him. What I am trying to say is that communicating with your partner with reduce problems and ultimately lead to a healthier relationship. However, one must use the right tone in their voice when communicating. Best of luck!
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