8 High School Flirting Tips You've Got to Read ...

Tease Him • Keep the Eye Contact • Make the Guy Talk to You • Flash Your Pearly Whites • Lean into Him during a Conversation • More ...

8 High School Flirting Tips You've Got to Read ...
By Heather • Dec 14, 2012 MD

High school flirting tips are so hard to come by, especially when your crush is not in any of your classes and you aren't able to be around him all the time! If you've ever looked online for high school flirting tips, they aren't very helpful are they? Well girls, whether you are looking to tease your crush or even just smile at him, these high school flirting tips will help rope your crush right in!

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1. Tease Him

The very first high school flirting tip that we have on the list is teasing! Just being a little snarky and a little sarcastic is a great way to really let him know the sassy side of you and let him know that you are playful and able to tease. Be careful though, you want to take this one lightly and don't get too snarky or sassy – as that can translate bad on you. Just keep it casual and light!

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Playful banter is the key here; think of it as a sport where the aim is not to win but to enjoy the game. You might want to gently poke fun at something he's said or lightly challenge him on a topic you know he's passionate about. Remember the smile, it's your most important accessory; it diffuses any tension and shows your good intentions. As the laughter flows between you, the connection deepens – just be sure to watch for the line between playful and disrespectful and stay firmly on the fun side!

2. Keep the Eye Contact

Just because you don't have any classes with him doesn't mean that you can't stare at one another in the hallway! Making eye contact is very important when you are learning all of the high school flirting tips out there. Eye contact can lead to smiles which can lead to conversations. So flash those eyes at him and hold it!

3. Make the Guy Talk to You

You are probably wondering how to get the guy to talk to you right? Well teens, all you need to do is bump into him or even just flash a little smile, worm your way into his circle of friends. Getting a guy to talk to you might seem hard, but truthfully, as long as you do it right, it's easy!

4. Flash Your Pearly Whites

A smile can say so many words that you might not be able to say. When you smile, it makes you way more approachable and really lets the guy know that you are available. Trust me on this one girls, a guy wants to approach a girl that is smiling over a girl that is scowling.

If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.

5. Lean into Him during a Conversation

When the guy finally does approach you, a high school flirting tip that I used to use all of the time was leaning into him whenever I was talking to him. Just press in a little bit closer to him, even lean over him when you are close enough and you'll see just how much it makes a difference!

6. Touch Him

This high school flirting tip goes hand-in-hand with #5! All you need to do is touch him a little bit more, make sure that you have a hand on his shoulder, fingers running through his hair or even a hand on his arm. Touch him when you are talking to him or laughing with him. That way he'll know how to respond!

7. Laugh/Giggle

I think that laughing and giggling comes natural when you are in high school and you are around your crush, but this high school flirting tip is a standard! Laugh when something is half-way funny and giggle a lot. This will make him feel more at ease and will give him a little more confidence around you!

8. Touch Your Hair

Finally girls, another classic high school flirting tip that I used to use all of the time was constantly touching your hair. Wrap it around your finger, push it back, move it out of your eyes. It's an excuse for his eyes to travel a little bit and it makes you seem all that much more flirty!

So girls, what other high school flirting tips do you girls have to share? Any fool-proof ones that you've used in the past? High school is a hard time, but with high school flirting tips, it makes it easier to be around your crush!

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  • daisies

    2012-12-17T03:30:08.000Z

    Hey I need some help figuring out what this guy means :) I'm in ninth grade and we go to different schools but I know him from swim club. I've known him for a while and I liked him before but then I stopped but now I have again. We don't see each other over winter because swim club stops and we usually don't keep in touch then. This winter because I liked him I decided that I'd keep in touch and text him and stuff. We kept in touch and mid way through winter he confessed to liking me and I confessed to liking him. We texted more often from then on and I asked him what it made us now that we knew we liked each other. He said he wanted to stay friends for now cause we didn't see each other during winter but that when summer came back we might be more than friends. We kept in touch but we didn't tell anybody about us. It was the day before swim training started again almost every night and we had a registration day. I had to leave early for a concert. That night he texted me saying he want to stay just friends because it would be too difficult going to different schools and all. I just don't know why he said it then when we would begin to see each other nearly every night when he could've said that when we weren't seeing each other at all. I'm so confused and I just feel like I've been played this whole time. What do you think was his motives for saying that then? Please help I'm so confused :(
  • Tempis

    2012-12-15T06:46:47.000Z

    These are great!!
  • Elizen

    2013-06-13T13:32:20.000Z

    Once, there was this guy I had a crush on. And whenever I'm around him, I absently keep on touching my hair. Ha. So that's why. Anyway. Very great tips. :)
  • Emma

    2013-12-07T09:43:13.000Z

    Hi Heather. I like this guy who is one year order than me. He is friends with my guy-friend and they both go to my school. We text every single day, but he has a girlfriend. Everytime i see him in school i say hi, he says hi too and is often the one who says hi first. He has asked if i wanted to meet and work out, we play the same sport, and we have too maybe twice. The other day the fact that he couldnt play piano came up. I mentioned that i can. I said i can teach him and he answered only if you Will work out with me again. Does this mean something or am i just imagining things? He smiles when he sees me and compliments me at times
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