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How to Flirt with Men on Social Media ...

By Holly

If you rarely see your crush in person, or if you're too shy to approach him when you see him, then you can try flirting with him on social media. Nowadays, everyone has a Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram, which means there's definitely a way for you to contact him online. If you're not sure what you should say, here are a few different ways you can flirt with your crush on social media:

1 Add Him as a Friend

Add Him as a Friend If you want to flirt with a man on social media, then the first step is to actually add him on Instagram and Facebook. If you’ve been admiring him from afar, and don’t think he has any idea who you are, then you might want to send him a message along with that friend request. You don’t have to start off flirty. Just say that you think you're in the same class, or that you’re a huge fan of his funny IG posts.

2 Like His Statuses

Like His Statuses Liking any old status doesn’t count as flirting. That’s why you should wait to like his status. Only do so when he says something about how he’s looking for a girlfriend, or about how much he’s able to lift at the gym.

3 Comment on His Statuses

Comment on His Statuses You should be careful when making flirty comments on his statuses. After all, the entire world can see them. You don’t want to embarrass yourself by looking too desperate. When you comment, say subtle things instead of listing all of the reasons why you love him. If you have something super flirty to say, then you can always message him about it instead.

4 Tag Him

Tag Him If you post a funny picture or video, you can tag him, so that he definitely sees it. That way, he'll know that he was on your mind. Of course, if you don't want your feelings to be overly obvious, then you can tag a bunch of other friends along with him.

5 Send Him Pictures

Send Him Pictures Instagram allows you to direct message other users now. That means that, instead of posting sexy photos for everyone to see and hoping your crush notices them, you can send them directly to him. Just don't send nudes that you don't want to get leaked. You can be sexy while still wearing clothes, you know.

6 Update Your Profile

Update Your Profile If you want to make a good impression on your crush, then you need to update your profile. Even though you aren't on a dating site, you still want to use a flattering photo of yourself. You should also have a cute little summary on your Instagram and Twitter page. That way, you'll look fun and interesting! Of course, it never hurts to try to get as many followers as possible. The more that you have, the more intriguing you'll look.

7 Take Your Relationship off of Social Media

Take Your Relationship off of Social Media Your relationship is never going to go anywhere if you only talk to each other online. That's why you should ask him for his phone number, or to hang out in person, so that you're able to develop your relationship.

Social media shouldn't be the only way that you flirt with your crush. When you see him in person, you should continue the flirting face-to-face. What other ways have you flirted with your crush over social media?

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