7 Low-Maintenance Traits Men Want Their Girlfriends to Have ...

Not Picky • Not Obsessed with Money • Not a Drama Queen • Not a Big Spender • Not a Time Waster • More ...

By Holly • Mar 19, 2015 MD

Men love to lead simple lives free from drama. That's why they're more attracted to women who are low-maintenance and down to earth. They enjoy being in relationships where they aren't constantly stressed out along with their partner and forced to worry about every little thing. Here are a few of the most important low-maintenance traits men want their girlfriends to have:

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1. Not Picky

When a man takes the time to pick out an outfit and restaurant for a date, he doesn't want you to criticize his choices. If you do, then it's only going to make him feel bad about himself, like he isn't good enough. Men love low-maintenance women, because they're more likely to appreciate the hard work he put into the date, even if the evening turns out to be a dud.

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So ladies, remember to show gratitude and keep an open mind. Every effort he makes is a step towards creating a special moment between the two of you. Compliments on his choices can go a long way and encourage him to keep planning future adventures for you both. A little appreciation for his efforts can mean the difference between a good date and a great one.

2. Not Obsessed with Money

A gift should get a thank you, no matter how pathetic it is. Men appreciate that low maintenance women will be happy that they received jewelry, even if it didn't cost hundreds of dollars. As much as men want to treat their women like princesses, they don't want to feel like they're being forced to waste their paychecks on elaborate gifts.

3. Not a Drama Queen

Sure, your man might ask you how your day at the office was, but that doesn't mean he actually wants to hear every little detail about the frenemies you work with. Men aren't fans of gossip, because it signals trouble. That means they don't want to know about what a jerk your girlfriends are or about your hairdresser's private life. Low-maintenance girls are more casual and friendly, which means that they're less likely to be constantly talking about drama.

4. Not a Big Spender

If a man is going to spend the rest of his life with you, he'll feel better about his decision if you're careful with money. High-maintenance women like to have designer bags and dresses, so they'll be more likely to waste away whatever money they earn. Being good with your money won't only help you secure a good home, but it might make your man marry you.

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5. Not a Time Waster

Your man wants you to look your best, but he doesn't want you to spend hours in the bathroom before leaving the house. High-maintenance women won't budge until every hair is in place. That's why he'd rather be with a woman who is happy with herself, even when her makeup is a little smeared.

6. Not Superior

Some high-maintenance women assume that they're better than everyone else. While a man wants his girlfriend to have confidence, he also wants her to realize that they're equals. If one person believes that they're better than the other, the relationship will never work. Men love low-maintenance girls, because they never act like they're superior. They know that they're human, just like everybody else.

7. Not Materialistic

Low-maintenance women aren't fooled into believing that material items are the most important thing in the world. When a woman values her jewelry and gems above him, he won't be happy. He'd prefer to be with a woman who knows that love truly is the most important thing.

Every man is different, but most of them value these traits, because it'll make the relationship run smoother. Do other consider you high or low maintenance?

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  • Jennifer

    2015-03-19T22:01:19.739Z

    Men ask for way too much. How abt what we like!? Be yourself.
  • Daniel

    2015-03-19T21:50:15.127Z

    Jen, if you'd do that for me, I'd buy you a new care every $5,000 miles! 😍😉
  • Alyx

    2015-03-19T19:57:24.509Z

    This is very "change yourself to please a man " and that's really crappy. I disagree. I'm extremely picky about food and only go to some restaurants (due to an anxiety disorder) but my boyfriend loves it. He thinks it's cute and understands that im obviously not doing it to annoy him, and that it's something that's part of me. Same with getting ready. I get panic attacks if I stress myself out to much, so when I get ready, I blast music, and take my time. It's my relaxation time so it can take anywhere from 20 minutes to 6 hours. It's all preference. Some guys like the super high maintenance gucci only kind of girls, some guys like Girls who live in tents and pee in bushes. But nobody likes when you change yourself for someone.
  • Summer

    2015-03-20T02:29:19.094Z

    This could use a different title. I like the tips however a woman should not lower herself or standards just to get a man who will probably not value her as much as she does him to have to have made all these changes. It should be give and take.
  • Kim

    2015-03-20T03:05:58.320Z

    Not true. My husband enjoys my picky tastes and the way I dress for him.
  • Daniel

    2015-03-19T20:26:53.986Z

    Amen Sandy! The point isn't that we want to change ourselves into something we are not but that we want to be a better person! Works the same for both species! Want a better PERSON be a better PERSON!
  • Sandy2pointo

    2015-03-19T20:03:17.390Z

    I have to agree with Daniel. Who says a woman shouldn't maintain her own expensive tastes. Some women want all the requirements but put little effort towards obtaining some on her own. Ever wondered why the men of high maintenance women cheat with lower maintenance women? Men get tired of maintaining women who think it's their birth given right to be waited on hand and foot. There is nothing wrong with a man or woman having standards but high maintenance will leave heartbroken and alone. It's about being leveled and meeting your guy half way if u want a meaningful and successful relationship.
  • Cori

    2015-03-26T11:36:55.818Z

    Um. I read most of this article with our roles reversed!
  • Jennapher

    2015-03-19T16:04:55.721Z

    OMG, Holly...you sound as if you are describing the "cool girl", and if you don't get the reference, read Gone Girl...I understand your intentions here, but just when does this lucky guy who has snagged the cool girl have to actually put any real honest effort into the relationship? When do I get to make the reservations at the restaurant I chose, and am allowed to forget his birthday, or tell him I think his hair is too long or too short? Hey, I hate drama too, and I'm not fond of gossip, but if I ask a man about his day, I expect him to tell me honestly whether his day was five-star, or sucked! Nothing personal Holly cuz I love your posts, but low maintenance is for cars, not women😏
  • Misty

    2015-03-19T16:32:41.350Z

    @Jennapher that was very well said and I agree.
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