Body Language That Suggests All He Wants is Sex ...

He Looks at Your Cleavage, Not Your Eyes • He Stares at Other Girls in Front of You • He Touches You Sexually Instead of Sweetly • He Always Stands a Bit Too Close • He Gropes You Whenever He Can • More ...

By Holly • May 12, 2015 MD

A true gentleman is hard to find, especially when you're young. There are plenty of guys who seem like perfect mates, but that's only because they're pretending to be interested in you for your personality, when all they're really interested in sex. If your not sure where your man stands, here are a few body language signals that suggest he's only looking for sex:

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1. He Looks at Your Cleavage, Not Your Eyes

When your man talks to you, does he look you in the eyes or is his glance a little further down? It's natural for straight boys to peek at your cleavage, but if your guy respects you, that won't be where he's looking for the whole night, especially when you're trying to tell him something important.

2. He Stares at Other Girls in Front of You

It's fine for him to glance at a pretty girl that passes by or if he looks at your waitress for a second too long. However, if you notice his eyes wander every single time that a female passes by, that's a problem. If he graduates from using inappropriate body language to actually making crude comments about those women, then it's time to leave.

3. He Touches You Sexually Instead of Sweetly

What your man doesn't do is just as important as what he does do. Does he hold your hand when you're watching a movie together or does he always try to touch you between your thighs? Does he ever give you sweet kisses on the cheek, or does he only give you french kisses with way too much tongue?

4. He Always Stands a Bit Too Close

It's normal for him to get close to you on the dance floor or when you're alone together on the couch. However, if he's always on top of you when you're in public, or even worse, around your parents, then he's way too focused on the physical aspect of your relationship.

If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.

5. He Gropes You Whenever He Can

How long into the make out session does it take him to feel you up? If he starts grabbing your chest as soon as you lock lips, then he's eager to get to the bedroom.

6. He Always Has a Bulge in His Pants

This one is the most obvious. When you're with your man, does he always have a bulge in his pants? Most of the time, you can view it as a compliment. But if the bulge is there while he's consoling you as you cry or while you're talking about a wart you had removed at the doctor, he's probably paying less attention to your words and more attention to your looks.

7. The Way He Touches You Makes You Uncomfortable

It doesn't matter if he puts his hands on your upper thigh or if he just touches your shoulder--if you're uncomfortable about being touched, then he shouldn't lay his hands on you. No exceptions. If a guy doesn't understand personal boundaries, then there's no reason for you to spend any more of your time with him.

Sometimes, you have to ignore the words a guy is saying and pay attention to his body language. It's easy for him to lie with his mouth, but it's harder for him to deceive you with the rest of his body. What other body language do you associate with an overly sexual guy?

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  • Haweee

    2015-05-12T22:07:45.772Z

    Ok thank you
  • Claire

    2015-05-12T19:59:59.140Z

    @haweee m You leave him. If he keeps staring at other women/girls, he clearly doesn't respect you, in my beliefs. And if he's had 'fun' with them, then that's even worse?
  • princesssultana

    2015-05-12T21:49:46.424Z

    Personally divorce isn't always the solution. We should not think first about divorce and just ride away from the problem. We need to help her to find good solutions for the sake of her kids.
  • Angela

    2015-05-12T18:56:41.011Z

    Lol it does because 90 percent of men ,does these things but I don't like its,guess that's why am single ,a totally turn off
  • Hiba

    2015-05-13T07:16:24.014Z

    @Hawaee there's no such thing in the quran that says women can't have their children after marriage, even the prophet had never said any of this, have you ever even read the quran ? what you say is all false and only making our religion look bad. your man obviously doesn't deserve you.. i'm not saying get a divorce but i'm also pretty sure you never even had a real talk with him about what he does, wanna fix your marriage ? fine but talk to him and put some limits, give yourself the value you deserve, when men know that a woman can't live without them they take her for granted show him that you're independent and strong and can live without him just fine and he'll come back to you like a little puppet (no offense).
  • April

    2015-05-18T15:07:19.159Z

    Great post. Young teen girls should read this and get an idea of how pigs are and how they are different from respectful guys.
  • Jess

    2015-05-13T11:22:21.667Z

    @hawee I grew up in a Muslim country and I understand what u mean, she's not talking about the religion and Quran as much as she's talking about her society. She lives in such a society so she simply can't make decisions since it will definitely affect her parents and her children. I don't agree wit what your husband had done but ultimately, it's your life, your choice. If you keep quiet thinking everything will be ok, you are making yourself unhappy and your children who you love will grow up thinking a man cheating on them is something normal and alright. Do u want them to think like that too?
  • nicolette

    2015-05-13T05:49:56.600Z

    Love this
  • Jess

    2015-05-14T17:50:46.460Z

    @princesssultana, you are right, divorce isn't the solution to everything and back those days people didn't divorce but that's because back those days people feared God, they lived by religion. These days, they go around having fun and not following anything right and hurt those around them. Keeping quiet when unhappy is a form of abuse. My mom suffered it as well, that's why I'm saying. She tolerated everything my dad did for years and my siblings and I watched him. I saw his behaviour and I saw one day, my mom couldn't take it anymore and the last straw after everything failed was divorce and now I'm proud of you. I'm not going to lie, I didn't have an easy time. The society did look down at my mom but at the end of the day, who are you trying to please? God never told anyone to be emotionally abused and that's what this is. Once a cheater is always a cheater and I pray too that he will change but know that you must believe you are strong and you can make a difference in your children's life without him. Half the battle is believing, afterwards trust me, your kids will respect you for your bravery. I understand it's a tough choice but a woman can do it, my mom did it. No matter what you choose, may God be with you and give you strength!
  • Cindy

    2015-05-13T04:47:29.616Z

    Eischhhh.....
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