Body Language That Suggests All He Wants is Sex ...

By Holly • May 12, 2015 MD

A true gentleman is hard to find, especially when you're young. There are plenty of guys who seem like perfect mates, but that's only because they're pretending to be interested in you for your personality, when all they're really interested in sex. If your not sure where your man stands, here are a few body language signals that suggest he's only looking for sex:

1. He Looks at Your Cleavage, Not Your Eyes

When your man talks to you, does he look you in the eyes or is his glance a little further down? It's natural for straight boys to peek at your cleavage, but if your guy respects you, that won't be where he's looking for the whole night, especially when you're trying to tell him something important.

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2. He Stares at Other Girls in Front of You

It's fine for him to glance at a pretty girl that passes by or if he looks at your waitress for a second too long. However, if you notice his eyes wander every single time that a female passes by, that's a problem. If he graduates from using inappropriate body language to actually making crude comments about those women, then it's time to leave.

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3. He Touches You Sexually Instead of Sweetly

What your man doesn't do is just as important as what he does do. Does he hold your hand when you're watching a movie together or does he always try to touch you between your thighs? Does he ever give you sweet kisses on the cheek, or does he only give you french kisses with way too much tongue?

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4. He Always Stands a Bit Too Close

It's normal for him to get close to you on the dance floor or when you're alone together on the couch. However, if he's always on top of you when you're in public, or even worse, around your parents, then he's way too focused on the physical aspect of your relationship.

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5. He Gropes You Whenever He Can

How long into the make out session does it take him to feel you up? If he starts grabbing your chest as soon as you lock lips, then he's eager to get to the bedroom.

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6. He Always Has a Bulge in His Pants

This one is the most obvious. When you're with your man, does he always have a bulge in his pants? Most of the time, you can view it as a compliment. But if the bulge is there while he's consoling you as you cry or while you're talking about a wart you had removed at the doctor, he's probably paying less attention to your words and more attention to your looks.

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7. The Way He Touches You Makes You Uncomfortable

It doesn't matter if he puts his hands on your upper thigh or if he just touches your shoulder--if you're uncomfortable about being touched, then he shouldn't lay his hands on you. No exceptions. If a guy doesn't understand personal boundaries, then there's no reason for you to spend any more of your time with him.

Sometimes, you have to ignore the words a guy is saying and pay attention to his body language. It's easy for him to lie with his mouth, but it's harder for him to deceive you with the rest of his body. What other body language do you associate with an overly sexual guy?

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  • Jess

    2015-05-13T11:22:21.667Z

    @hawee I grew up in a Muslim country and I understand what u mean, she's not talking about the religion and Quran as much as she's talking about her society. She lives in such a society so she simply can't make decisions since it will definitely affect her parents and her children. I don't agree wit what your husband had done but ultimately, it's your life, your choice. If you keep quiet thinking everything will be ok, you are making yourself unhappy and your children who you love will grow up thinking a man cheating on them is something normal and alright. Do u want them to think like that too?
  • nicolette

    2015-05-13T05:49:56.600Z

    Love this
  • princesssultana

    2015-05-12T21:48:38.660Z

    @Haweee m are you Muslim ?
  • Cindy

    2015-05-12T20:40:25.704Z

    In Spain the guys flirt openly with other girls in front of their girlfriends and wifes.
  • princesssultana

    2015-05-13T16:39:57.513Z

    No need to thank me, it's my duty as a Muslim to give adivces which I think is good. Anytime for you dear :)
  • SophieP

    2015-06-04T19:55:02.388Z

    It also scares me @Lil hez that you come onto this app/website that is meant to be a positive women-friendly environment, for everyone to share personal views and experiences, and then to recieve negative comments from people such as your self. May I please also point out, that every single one of your comments are negatively based? Sorry to keep on, but matters such as this, really get on my nut.. Sorry. Enjoy the rest of your day.
  • princesssultana

    2015-05-13T15:41:53.207Z

    It's my pleasure dear sister ! ❤️ in sha'Allah everything will be fine with the help of Allah souban'Allah wa tahla.
  • Haweee

    2015-05-12T19:27:34.434Z

    What if he is your husband. And u found that he always look at girls and had fun wit them, wat wil you do
  • Moas

    2015-05-13T18:26:02.242Z

    And sisters May Allah reward you guys for advising her, we need more Muslim women like this so we could all help one another.
  • Cindy

    2015-05-13T04:47:29.616Z

    Eischhhh.....
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