Body Language That Suggests All He Wants is Sex ...

Holly May 12, 2015

A true gentleman is hard to find, especially when you're young. There are plenty of guys who seem like perfect mates, but that's only because they're pretending to be interested in you for your personality, when all they're really interested in sex. If your not sure where your man stands, here are a few body language signals that suggest he's only looking for sex:

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1. He Looks at Your Cleavage, Not Your Eyes

When your man talks to you, does he look you in the eyes or is his glance a little further down? It's natural for straight boys to peek at your cleavage, but if your guy respects you, that won't be where he's looking for the whole night, especially when you're trying to tell him something important.

2. He Stares at Other Girls in Front of You

It's fine for him to glance at a pretty girl that passes by or if he looks at your waitress for a second too long. However, if you notice his eyes wander every single time that a female passes by, that's a problem. If he graduates from using inappropriate body language to actually making crude comments about those women, then it's time to leave.

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3. He Touches You Sexually Instead of Sweetly

What your man doesn't do is just as important as what he does do. Does he hold your hand when you're watching a movie together or does he always try to touch you between your thighs? Does he ever give you sweet kisses on the cheek, or does he only give you french kisses with way too much tongue?

4. He Always Stands a Bit Too Close

It's normal for him to get close to you on the dance floor or when you're alone together on the couch. However, if he's always on top of you when you're in public, or even worse, around your parents, then he's way too focused on the physical aspect of your relationship.

5. He Gropes You Whenever He Can

How long into the make out session does it take him to feel you up? If he starts grabbing your chest as soon as you lock lips, then he's eager to get to the bedroom.

6. He Always Has a Bulge in His Pants

This one is the most obvious. When you're with your man, does he always have a bulge in his pants? Most of the time, you can view it as a compliment. But if the bulge is there while he's consoling you as you cry or while you're talking about a wart you had removed at the doctor, he's probably paying less attention to your words and more attention to your looks.

7. The Way He Touches You Makes You Uncomfortable

It doesn't matter if he puts his hands on your upper thigh or if he just touches your shoulder--if you're uncomfortable about being touched, then he shouldn't lay his hands on you. No exceptions. If a guy doesn't understand personal boundaries, then there's no reason for you to spend any more of your time with him.

Sometimes, you have to ignore the words a guy is saying and pay attention to his body language. It's easy for him to lie with his mouth, but it's harder for him to deceive you with the rest of his body. What other body language do you associate with an overly sexual guy?

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@Hawaee there's no such thing in the quran that says women can't have their children after marriage, even the prophet had never said any of this, have you ever even read the quran ? what you say is all false and only making our religion look bad. your man obviously doesn't deserve you.. i'm not saying get a divorce but i'm also pretty sure you never even had a real talk with him about what he does, wanna fix your marriage ? fine but talk to him and put some limits, give yourself the value you deserve, when men know that a woman can't live without them they take her for granted show him that you're independent and strong and can live without him just fine and he'll come back to you like a little puppet (no offense).

Usually women don't work, so kids must live with the one who can take care of them properly. And @Jess , she don't need to keep quiet , she can find out some solutions rather than divorce. Divorce isn't the solution for all problems. In the past, people didn't think about divorce in every single problem between husband and wife. These are tests that you need to pass. Because this world is a test not paradise. @Haweee m , the solution that I think for you is to encourage your husband to practice his religion properly and you show him also by your behaviour. In sha'Allah he will understand. And finally we can make douha for you.

Yes am Muslim.

@haweee m You leave him. If he keeps staring at other women/girls, he clearly doesn't respect you, in my beliefs. And if he's had 'fun' with them, then that's even worse?

@Haweee m, I hope your plan works!!!

What if he is your husband. And u found that he always look at girls and had fun wit them, wat wil you do

No no I can't i have to fix my marriage. No matter how hard it is I will try my best to get my husband back. For my sake and my children sake. Pls help me

Amin thank you

May Allah give you the patiences sister hawee. Believe me nothing is better than praying to Allah for help and making Duaa

Amin, May Allah guides us to right path.thank you so much sultana

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