Never Date a Man Who Shames Women in These 17 Ways ...

Never Date a Man Who Shames Women in These 17 Ways ...
By Holly • Feb 11, 2022 MD

We don't get treated as fairly as we deserve. A lot of the time, men will use us, abuse us, and then leave us. Of course, we shouldn't accept that poor treatment for any longer. We deserve better. That's why you should never date a man if he does these unacceptable things to you:

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1. Uses You for Sex

black,black and white,monochrome,monochrome photography,film noir, You aren't a sex object. Don't let him convince you that he deserves sex, just because he bought you dinner and a birthday gift. He only deserves sex once you're entirely ready to have it.

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2. Ghosts on You

person,beauty,brown hair,supermodel,model, Some men will act like they're interested in you, and then will drop out of your life all of a sudden. If he stops texting you, don't keep chasing after him. He does't deserve the attention.

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3. Catcalls You

people,physical fitness, No man should be harassing women on the street. It doesn't matter what you're wearing, because you deserve respect.

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4. Cheats on You

The CW,screenshot,fictional character,CUUU, Don't date someone willing to cheat on you. You should be the only person in his life.

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5. Sends You Unsolicited Dick Pics

person,musician,screenshot,singing,family, Some men send pictures of their privates without warning. Of course, no woman wants to see that. Don't date a guy who's willing to send personal photos to strangers.

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6. Bashes His Ex

person,professional,HERRTU, Everyone has a crazy ex. However, if he's always complaining about what a horrible person she is, he's probably not over her. He might even be exaggerating.

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7. Sexually Harasses You

person,woman,finger,hand,interaction, It doesn't matter if he realizes that he's sexually harassing you. It's never okay.

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8. Takes Advantage of You While Drunk

screenshot, Don't date a man who tries to sleep with drunk women. It's not consent when you're unable to make a decision for yourself.

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9. Body Shames You

person,musician,pianist,profession, Men should never tell a woman that she's too fat or too skinny. Either way, it's rude.

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10. Peer Pressures You

people,musical theatre,audience, He shouldn't pressure you to have sex, to smoke, or to drink. He should let you make your own decisions.

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11. Begs You for Nude Pictures

person,muscle,singing,singer,mouthing, It's flattering that he wants to see your body, but he shouldn't be begging for naked pictures of you. It's just plain creepy.

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12. Sleeps around

black,white,black and white,darkness,human positions, If he sleeps with every woman he can find, you can't trust him. He won't change for you.

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13. Doesn’t Take No for an Answer

person,speech,screenshot,official,profession, Men need to learn what "no" means. If you reject him once, he shouldn't keep pestering you until you change your mind.

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14. Abuses You

hair,human hair color,face,blond,nose, Never let a man hit you. If he does, you should never see him again.

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15. Phubs You

screenshot,sense,interaction,E3E38,One, Phone snubbing is incredibly rude. If you go out on a date with him, and he pays more attention to his cell than to you, he clearly isn't worth your time.

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16. Lies to You

face,person,nose,head,mouth, Lying isn't a part of life. You shouldn't date someone who feels comfortable looking you in the eyes and lying.

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17. Orders You around

conversation,screenshot,You,are,coming, He isn't in charge of your body. He shouldn't tell you how much to eat or what to wear. Those things are none of his business.

Be careful choosing a date, because you don't want to end up with the wrong man. Have you ever dated a guy who did any of these unacceptable things?

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  • Samantha

    2015-12-31T18:52:18.894Z

    Most men have all or most of these qualities.
  • Patrixia

    2016-06-03T16:46:18.653Z

    sad but true, specially the second one. one day he'll tell you he likes you then drip you out of his life on the the next 😢
  • Wilson

    2016-04-25T07:23:19.657Z

    so sweet
  • BrittanyBAKER

    2015-12-31T23:44:39.498Z

    When me and my husband first started dating he was constantly showing up with sweet treats (bc they're my FAVORITE) anyways, 3 years later we literally just had a conversation that started with him telling I cannot have sweets. I'm not fat, and I'm very healthy so it's not for obvious reasons. Anyways it's annoying.
  • Sana

    2016-01-06T18:37:36.280Z

    Very true. Totally agreed.
  • Angela

    2016-01-01T08:28:44.241Z

    I'm married to one
  • Jules

    2016-01-30T02:15:13.768Z

    Thanks @ rad-dizzle
  • MeAn

    2016-06-10T15:44:29.056Z

    I'm in that situation now
  • Itohowo

    2016-01-01T23:09:02.067Z

    Lol definitely been "ghosted" weren't dating or together but I liked him.
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