At some point in our lives, we all have picked a flower, and while picking off one petal after the other wondered if our partner loves us. Well, this article might help you in answering that question. If not completely, it will definitely get you close, more than a flower would anyways. Check out these ways to tell if he's in love using psychology. Sometimes, we are confused and don’t understand the concept of falling in love. Sometimes we don't even realize how and when we have fallen so hard and inexplicably in love. These questions will help you learn how to tell if he's in love using psychology.
You should be your partner's priority and vice versa. Is spending time with your partner your priority? Do you feel valued in his life ? Do you make each other feel important? And, do your opinions matter to each other?
Being happy when your partner is happy should come naturally. And if you avoid anything that could possibly make your partner unhappy, you definitely care for them. Love is when you learn to do things that your partner loves. It's about making that extra effort to make them feel special.
3. The Future
Does he make future plans with you? Do you talk about where you would want to live, what kind of house you would want to live in, etc. Your partner wanting you to be in his future is a big sign that he loves you. Do you daydream about your future with them, or better yet do you two daydream together? this is a definite sign that he wants to have a future together.
4. I Miss You, do You Miss Me?
Do you miss him when he's away? Does he miss you? Do you make him aware that you miss him? Does he? Do you appreciate that he misses you? Do you text each other to check in and look forward to being together again?
5. Going out of Your Way
Does your partner do things that don't necessarily benefit them? Only because they care about you, and want you to be happy and safe. Do they take pains to do something just for you? Are they by your side when you're in a problematic situation? Trying to solve your partner's problems and doing everything in your power to make him happy is when you know you are in love.
6. Self Reflection Not Self Love
In an argument with your partner, do you ever admit you are wrong? Does your partner ever think he could be wrong? Do you ever think how you could be wrong? There is no shame in admitting that you are wrong. If anything, it's a sign of strength, security, confidence and belief in yourself that you can be a better person. Not just for you, but for your partner as well.
7. The Special One
Do you feel your partner is one in a million? And you can't think about any other person the same way? Then they are surely special.
8. Look at the Positive Side
Do you ignore the negative traits of your partner and focus on the positive? If the positive outweighs the negative then you have something special. This shows you are willing to outlook some of his cons because you are so in love with his pros.
9. Am I Emotionally Unstable?
Most of us have suffered it. You know, the symptoms. Euphoria, sleeplessness, an increase in energy, a racing heart and anxiety, to name a few. Don’t get scared. There’s nothing wrong with you. It’s quite common when you're in love and it shows that you care about your partner and are afraid of losing him.
10. On My Mind All Day
Do you spend most of your waking hours thinking about your loved one? It's been suggested by a study that most people in love think about their loved ones 85% of the time. I wonder, how does a person in love get any work done? Haha.
11. If You Feel Pain, I Feel Pain
Do you feel empathetic towards your partner?
Empathy is when you feel the same or similar feelings as someone else. Do you feel pain when your partner feels pain? And would you do anything in your power to help him in that situation? This shows that you love him and are ready to make sacrifices for him.
12. What's My Value?
Does your partner know every little detail about you? For example, knowing about your likes, dislikes, family background, etc. Do you celebrate your partner’s success? That is love.
13. Jealous, Me?
Sexual desire comes with strong emotions. If you are in love, you would want your partner to be sexually exclusive and if you suspect your partner of being unfaithful, you might feel extremely jealous and possessive.
14. Those Important Emotions
Sexual interaction is important for couples but according to studies, it's the emotional interaction between a couple that matters most. And the one that lasts in the long run! Emotions are definitely the most important part of a relationship. No matter how sexually compatible you are, if you can't connect emotionally, your relationship might not last very long.
If most of your answers to these questions are yes, then you're both in love.