10 Signs Your Relationship is over ...

By Carly

Sometimes it can be difficult to spot the signs that your relationship is over. Maybe things aren’t as good as they used to be. Perhaps one of you has been unhappy recently and you can’t figure out why. Here are 10 signs that your relationship is over.

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1 Who Are You?

When you first started dating, there was no subject that was off-limits. You and your man could talk all day and all night long. He was your best friend and the person you called multiple times a day. Now, trying to have a conversation with him is worth than having your teeth pulled.

2 Bye Bye Sex

Has your man lost interest in sex… with you? You put on your sexiest lingerie but just he isn’t interested? Does he tell you that he’s not in the mood or that he’s tired or had a long day? If you can’t remember the last time you got busy between the sheets, you’re about to embark on a really long dry spell, which is one of the main signs that your relationship is over.

3 Orgasm Who?

When the relationship was just beginning, you were having orgasms around the clock. They were so frequent that you thought life couldn’t get any better. You were literally in sex-heaven. Now, you don’t remember the last time you had one. An orgasm is a woman’s way of connecting with her man. If there’s no orgasm, there’s no connection. So, realize it might be time to say goodbye to your relationship.

4 Call Me!

The roles have reversed. In the beginning he used to call you, text you, and send you cute love notes all the time. Now, you’re the one constantly calling him. What happened? His heart just isn’t in the relationship anymore.

5 Shower Time

Has your man been taking really long showers? He’s in there for a while and you wonder what he could possibly be doing? If his long shower time a routine, he’s probably not just rinsing off.

Famous Quotes

Love is like a friendship caught on fire. In the beginning a flame, very pretty, often hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. As love grows older, our hearts mature and our love becomes as coals, deep-burning and unquenchable.

Bruce Lee

6 Where’d the Fun Go?

When you first met, your boyfriend was Mr. Romantic. He loved surprising you with home-cooked dinner nights and incredible vacations. Now, trying to get him to take you on a date is practically impossible.


As time goes on, it's common for the spark and excitement in a relationship to fade away. This can be due to a variety of reasons, such as work stress, financial issues, or simply becoming comfortable with each other. However, it's important to pay attention to signs that your relationship may be heading towards its end. For example, if your partner is no longer making an effort to plan special dates or surprises, it could be a sign that they are losing interest. Communication and effort are key in maintaining a healthy and happy relationship.

7 Hey Friends

Have you been spending a lot of extra time with your friends? IS your man busy so your friends have taken over your social life? If you see your friends more than you see your man, your relationship is in danger.


Work, Work, Work

Is your boyfriend turning into a workaholic? He always spent a lot of time at the office, but now he seems to have work events every other night. I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but it sounds like he’s avoiding you.

9 Forget Me Not

Does he seem really absent-minded these days? Does he forget all special occasions like holidays and anniversaries? Perhaps he’s trying to send you little subconscious hints that he doesn’t want to be in the relationship anymore.

10 World War III

Does it feel like you’re fighting a war in your personal life? If you and your partner are always at each other’s throats, something is clearly wrong. Its common for couples to fight. If they didn’t, make-up sex wouldn’t be as much fun as it is. But there’s a fine line between healthy fighting and fighting incessantly with no resolution.

If your life sounds anything like this article, it’s time to make a change. You’re too good to settle for anything but the best. Do you have any tips to add?

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It's not my partners responsibility for my orgasm - men don't have a clue unless they are shown where our pleasure point is... Unfortunately woman are putting themselves on the back burner

Oops I meant #5

It is so hard when we have children and no place to go , us women suffers .

# 6 men masturbate anyway good sex , bad sex , no sex it's just something they do .

I just went through a break up and almost all of these signs were there.

So sad...but so true. I'm going through a divorce and unfortunately most of these signs were there. Especially the talking and close communication. Once that leaves, most of the intimacy is already gone...

This is all so very true. When not only the romance dies but everything goes with it that's a sign

Damn this signs are on point #1,4,6,9 are the signs that true for me and I didn't realize how much these signs of a a guy actions shows that he wants to break up with you and I went through a breakup last year and now reading this help me open my eyes that these signs were red flags for me to see 😔

A lot of these signs are true, why can't men just be honest & say they want out instead of acting up

I don't understand why people take love granted by misleading us .