When you’re in a long term relationship, things can get a little routine in the bedroom. You can break out of that rut by using these tantalizingly sexy tips to seduce your man. Things will be spicy once again between you and you’ll feel like lovers for the first time all over again.
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1. Change up What You Wear to Bed 👙
It’s so easy to slip into one of your man’s t-shirts and climb into bed. I know because I’m guilty of doing this too. It’s hard to resist that soft, comfy worn in cotton! But if you want to seduce your man, bypass the XL tee and put on something silky that hugs your curves. There’s no way he’ll miss the change in your bedtime attire.
2. Whisper in His Ear That You’re Not Wearing Any Panties 👂
At a boring party? This’s a perfect way to lure him away and be sure that things get going between the sheets when you get home. Tell him you’re not wearing panties and see how long it takes him to find an excuse to leave. Then you can tell him all the plans you have for him while you’re driving home.
3. Choose a Sexy Destination for Vacation ✈
There’s just something about getting out of your home zone that makes sex a little sexier. You can really pump that up by choosing a sexy destination for your vacation. Whether it’s a tropical paradise or a hidden nook in a mountain chalet, there’s a destination that’s right for every couple. Let the loveliness of your surroundings ignite your passion for each other!
4. Take Time for a Slow but Sexy Massage 🚿
It’s difficult to receive a massage and not be in the mood for sex. It’s such a lovely, calming feeling to relax and let your body release all of the tension it’s carrying. Offer your partner a massage and accept one in return if he offers! Sharing a shower together is a great way to ease into some foreplay after the massage, too.
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Light some scented candles and dim the lights to create an inviting atmosphere that screams romance. Feel the tension dissolve as you explore each other's bodies with warm oils, teasing touches, and gentle strokes. This sensory journey can deepen your emotional connection, setting the stage for an intimate and passionate encounter. Let the rhythm of each other’s breath guide your hands. And remember, it’s not just about the destination—it’s about savoring each sensation and moment leading up to it, building anticipation for what’s to come. After all, nothing says "I desire you" quite like dedicated, sensual attention.
If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.
5. Catch Him off Guard 🏩
It’s fun to catch your guy off guard and initiate sex. Whether he’s working on his car or in the middle of watching a big game, you’re sure to get his mind on something else entirely when you let him know what you want. Lead him to the bedroom, ladies! Don’t be shy; men love when their woman is bold!
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6. Try out Role Play 💕
Role play can be fun but it has to be something you both want to try. You should never do anything you don’t want to do or ask your partner to do anything he doesn’t want to do. But if you’re both game, go for it! Be his sexy maid or have him be your fabulously fit personal trainer. Whatever makes you both happy is a go.
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Role playing is a popular way to spice up a long term relationship and keep the spark alive. It involves acting out different scenarios or characters in a safe and consensual manner. Role playing can help break the routine and bring excitement back into the bedroom. It also allows couples to explore their fantasies and desires in a playful and non-judgmental way. Some popular role play ideas include playing out a boss and secretary scenario, doctor and patient, or even a teacher and student. It's important to establish clear boundaries and communicate openly with your partner before trying role play to ensure a positive and enjoyable experience for both of you.
7. Get Some Inspiration 📙
If you’re bored in the bedroom, don’t despair. There’re lots of books on different positions and ideas to spice things up. You can probably even find some great tips in your latest Cosmo. Keeping sex fun and fresh is something all couples have to put a little work into now and then.
These’re 7 tips for seducing your man. Which ones do you plan to try? Share with me!
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