Really great sex depends on not just give and take, but a real desire to drive your partner absolutely wild – and vice versa, too. When the two of you are keen to make each other squeal, squirm, and scream, the sex is magical! You want you sex game to really sizzle, you want to make things pop hotter every time, and that is awesome – but you might need a few tips, ideas, or techniques to get you started!
Never underestimate the power of the perfect kiss. Of course, that differs from person to person and partner to partner, but there are a few techniques that usually go over VERY well! For one thing, don't try to choke anybody with your tongue. Don't stab them with it, either, and just really avoid being too overzealous in general. Sometimes less is more. Try teasing instead, with gentle nips and brushes of your lips.
Like women, guys have all sorts of erogenous zones – and they're not all located in his pants, ladies! Do you really want to get him going? Do you want to unleash all the butterflies in his stomach and get him squirming without even going below his neckline? Nibble his ear. Suck on his earlobe a little. Whisper something sweet – or something sexy.
A soft, subtle, barely-there kissed brushed anywhere will get your partner's nerve endings tingling for sure! Try brushing kisses along his neck, the curve of his ear, his lips – of course! – or venture down a bit. Let your lips lightly touch down on his collarbone, his nipples, or right around his belly button. His thighs are worth a try, too!
Let's go back to the neck, shall we? It deserves a lot of attention! Light little kisses are great, absolutely, but let your teeth get a little involved. Start with a nibble or a nip and go from there, judging by your partner's reaction.
Being vocal will absolutely drive him wild! Moans, groans, whimpers, whispers, gasps – they're all stimulating on so many levels, plus they let your partner know that you're enjoying yourself. You might even want to take things to the next level and add in some dirty talk!
Have you ever paid any attention to your lover's knees? It seems like a weird spot, I know, but introduce your tongue to the backs of your boo's knees and oooh, I bet you'll get a reaction! Nibble with your lips and teeth, too, and blow a little puff of breath against them.
A long, slow, sensual suckle is super erotic. The best part? It'll get both of you going! Introduce it in the middle of a particularly steamy makeout sesh. Start out with a gentle suckle, let your tongue get involved, and then, maybe let your teeth come to the party.
Do you know any other sexy, scintillating tips? Give 'em up in the comments!
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