Whether you know it yet or not, every single person in the world has the potential to be a super sexual, erotic beast! Sexual compatibility, libido, prowess, these are all things that we think about when it comes to satisfying both our own needs and the needs of our partners. Just because you are a shy little mouse in public, it doesn’t mean that you can’t be a force of nature in the bedroom! Here are five great ways to harness your sexual energy.
1. Be Naked
Your naked body is your best sex asset, so be brave and make sure that you use it to its best ability! Don’t be ashamed of what you have, because let me tell you, any potential romantic partner is going to want to indulge in it! Spend some time de-clothed to get more comfortable. Sleeping naked is a great way to awaken some of your natural sexuality.
2. Love Your Body
No matter what shape, size, or colour your body is, it is the only one you are ever going to have so you need to do your best to embrace it! The more you love your own body, the better you vibes and attitude will be when projecting sexual feelings on to a partner.
When both parties are interested and willing, there is nothing wrong with a little bit of exploratory flirting! Flirting is a great way to test the waters and hone your skills in terms of knowing what to say and how to act in front of someone that you want to be involved with. Whether it’s face to face, or sexting, or something in between, flirting is a great way to express yourself.
Something that I think the porn industry has done to us over the years is to make us think that sex is this super serious, really aggressive thing, but it doesn’t have to be like that! There is a lot of humour in sharing your body with someone, so make sure to have a sense of humour and see the fun and funny side in your sexuality as well as sultry stuff.
5. Dress the Part
Don’t underestimate just how much impact a set of sexy lingerie can have. You dress the part for work, so why not dress the part for the bedroom too? Lacy panties are definitely more appealing than those old grey granny knickers in the back of the drawer!