The Effects of Settling for a Man Who is Less than ⏬ What You Deserve ...

The Effects of Settling for a Man Who is Less than ⏬ What You Deserve ...
By Heather • Mar 5, 2022 MD

Settling for a relationship can be really difficult. I settled for quite a long time and I felt horrible because of it. If you are settling for your partner or feel like you are, take a look below.

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1. You Fear Being Alone

You Fear Being Alone You really, really do; that could be one of the reasons why you are settling for a man.

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2. You Feel like You Aren't Deserving of More

You Feel like You Aren't Deserving of More You feel like you don't deserve the type of love that is forever and the respect that should be there. That isn't true, though, you do!

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3. You Start to Let Yourself Slip Away

You Start to Let Yourself Slip Away And slide into a mold that he puts up. You shouldn't ever lose yourself in a relationship, especially one that isn't worthy of you.

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4. You Start to Doubt Yourself

You Start to Doubt Yourself And every single action that you do.

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5. You Get Depressed

You Get Depressed You know that you deserve more. That you deserve better.

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6. You Could Pull Back from Your Family

You Could Pull Back from Your Family Seriously. This happened to me when I was in this type of relationship.

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7. ...and Friends

...and Friends You typically don't have friends outside of his friends because … why? They aren't worth you either.

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8. You Start to Forget What Happiness is

You Start to Forget What Happiness is And that's sad and hard to let go of.

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9. You Have a Hard Time Finding Joy in Things

You Have a Hard Time Finding Joy in Things In anything and everything.

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10. Hobbies? What Are Those?

Hobbies? What Are Those? You lose interest in everything, which goes hand in hand with depression.

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11. You Start to Forget What You Were like before Your Partner

You Start to Forget What You Were like before Your Partner You start to forget how you were, what it was like.

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12. You've Tried to Change Him Multiple Times

You've Tried to Change Him Multiple Times But – it never happens.

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13. Your Sex Life is Always Lackluster

Your Sex Life is Always Lackluster And you know it.

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14. Sometimes, You Feel Lucky to Have Anyone

Sometimes, You Feel Lucky to Have Anyone This feeling isn't good at all.

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15. You Ignore a Lot of Your Own Needs

You Ignore a Lot of Your Own Needs Not necessarily putting his first, but you ignore your own.

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16. You Lower Your Standards

You Lower Your Standards To meet what he is right now.

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17. You Finally Accept Your Relationship

You Finally Accept Your Relationship Until – you change it.

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  • Nina

    2016-05-29T19:38:55.469Z

    Relationship is so complicated ... I'm a single mom of 4 children now... Life is wonderful if you said so.. ... Cry or laugh whenever I want it too.. Cheers .
  • Mkpxox

    2016-05-28T03:35:45.763Z

    Me too^
  • Latinagal

    2016-05-28T18:26:46.277Z

    Sad to say this is exactly what I'm in , and I can't seem how to part especially when we live together.
  • Vonnyj

    2016-05-30T15:39:41.897Z

    I once settled for a guy a while ago. At that time, my self esteem was very low & I was looking for someone to fill a void in my life. Now that I'm stronger, I will never again settle for anything less than what I deserve!
  • Dianisv

    2016-05-29T14:43:37.883Z

    Is sad when you love someone and he is great in many aspects, many of them i truly like and admire, but that person is so controlling and manipulator you ended doubting yourself about eveyrhing. And the fear of never finding someone like him takes over
  • Maricar

    2016-05-28T23:24:19.533Z

    How can I share it on facebook or is there any way I can sharw it. I'm new in app.
  • Kunjung

    2017-04-12T04:09:15.152Z

    @Nina Talad you are kind of woman That could inspire a lot of single mum out there ! strong n beautiful
  • Shanice

    2016-05-29T04:18:53.960Z

    I definitely was in a relationship like this for a year and finally ended it. I told him to lets be friends. I love him but it wasn't going anywhere. I felt like no one else would want me if i wanted to leave him. So this post is 100% true
  • Vinny

    2016-05-29T14:41:23.107Z

    I empathise with each and every honest confession or rather careful observations made by the writer. A part of me slipped away and feelings were like vortex. In the end , I couldn't even explaining what I was going through. But having my parents see through me, helped me out of it and now I feel like myself again and learning to shed away the patches it left on me.
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