Are you marriage material? Do you know what men really want in a relationship? Well, it's time to find out! According to RedBook Mag, here's what most men are looking for in a wife:
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1. Someone He Can Trust - Not Just with Going out Dancing with the Girls, but with All His Secrets and Weird, Dumb Fears
You shouldn't just be your man's wife. You should be his best friend.
2. Someone Who Supports Him Even if He Suddenly Wants to Quit His Job to Pursue His Dream of Becoming a Famous Screenwriter/inventor
He wants someone who's always there for him, no matter what stupid plans he comes up with.
3. Someone Who Has Drive and Ambition, and Doesn't Just Sit around Posting Motivational Quotes on Facebook
He doesn't want to be the only happy, successful one. He wants you to be, too.
4. Someone Who Wants to Spend Time with Him, but Also Goes out a Few Times a Month on Their Own
He doesn't want to be your entire life. He wants you to have friends you can go out with when he's not around.
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He values balance and independence in the relationship. He doesn't want you to feel isolated or solely dependent on him for happiness. Having your own social life demonstrates that you are confident, secure, and capable of maintaining your own friendships and interests. This dynamic allows both partners to grow individually while still cherishing the time spent together. It's vital for him to see that you can enjoy yourself both with and without him, fostering a healthy and fulfilling partnership. Encouraging this balance ensures you both have the chance to miss each other and appreciate your time together even more.
If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.
5. Someone He Can Have Really (really, Really, REALLY) Great Sex with
I mean, why wouldn't he want this?
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Men not only want a wife who is a great companion and friend, but also someone they can have great sex with. It is important for a man to feel desired and appreciated in the bedroom. A wife who can make him feel wanted and appreciated is a great asset to any marriage. It is also important for a wife to be open and willing to explore new things with her husband. Being able to communicate openly and honestly about sex can help ensure that both partners are satisfied and happy. This is why having a wife who is willing to have really great sex with her husband is so important.
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6. Someone Who Accepts That Maybe He's Not the Best Communicator and Understands That He's Working on It
He might have a hard time expressing his feelings, but he hopes you understand he's trying his best.
7. Someone Who Wants to Learn about Him and Grow with Him
Men want the same thing we want--someone who truly loves us and wants to grow old with us.
8. He Wants Someone Who Will Always Surprise Him
Growing as a person and accepting and adapting with changes are great qualities that men seek in a partner. Even after a long time of being together, you still can both share exciting stories and keep each other on your toes.
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Growing as a person and accepting and adapting with changes are great qualities that men seek in a partner. Even after a long time of being together, you still can both share exciting stories and keep each other on your toes. The element of surprise can reignite the initial spark, making the relationship dynamic and more engaging. Whether it’s picking up a new hobby, suggesting an unexpected date night, or simply sharing an interesting perspective, these little surprises can strengthen your bond. This ability to keep things fresh demonstrates your commitment to the relationship, ensuring it remains vibrant and full of life.
9. He Wants Someone Who Isn't Afraid to Speak Their Mind
Voicing your opinions, even if it isn't the most popular opinion, is so desired by men. Having the courage to say what you believe is such a courageous trait to have.
10. He Wants a Partner That Wants to Learn and Grow with Him
He wants someone who generally cares about what his hopes and dreams are in life. He wants someone to be by his side every step of the way.
Have you found the man you want to marry? Are these the qualities you see most important in what a man wants, and do these qualities differ from what you're looking for in a husband? Comment below!
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Melissa: Hmmm it's a tough world.
Donnie: @Berry hey berry
TheMisshoney69: IfLove to be married but no one wants me
Bettyboo: I found him and lost him.
BrittanyBAKER: Aw I love this! Being married is a blessing, but it's also constant work to nurture the marriage and grow together! :)
Calmkat: This is exactly right and I found it after one failed marriage. Sadly, the one that fits is still married.
Splashhhh: Than they should marry a robot 🙄
pinkyluv13: I have found him.
Atlantis: Does it matter what they want?
Thelma62913: I believe my husband and I were truly meant to be. He is the most patient, caring & understanding man I have ever dated.
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