You're Not Picky for Wanting These 17 Things in a Relationship ...

Some women are told that they're too picky, even though they're just looking for a decent man. However, you should never lower your standards. After all, you're not picky for wanting these things in a relationship:

1 Someone Who Listens

Someone Who Listens You're not boring, so your man shouldn't think that you are. He should enjoy listening to what you have to say.

2 Someone Who Likes You for More than Sex

Someone Who Likes You for More than Sex You aren't a sex object, so you shouldn't be treated like one. You need to find someone who likes your personality, and not just your body.

3 Someone Who Doesn’t Go MIA

Someone Who Doesn’t Go MIA Your man shouldn't pick and choose when to answer your text messages. You deserve to have someone who's always there for you, no matter what.

4 Someone Who Will Make Time for You

Someone Who Will Make Time for You He should want to spend time with you. Even if his schedule is jam packed, he should find the time to see you.

5 Someone Who Will Tell You How They Feel

Someone Who Will Tell You How They Feel You deserve to hear those three little words. That's why you need a man who isn't going to run from his feelings.

6 Someone Who Will Spend Time with Your Family

Someone Who Will Spend Time with Your Family A good boyfriend won't mind being introduced to your friends and family. In fact, he'll be excited about it, because it means that you two are serious.

7 Someone Who Will Buy You Little Gifts

Someone Who Will Buy You Little Gifts He doesn't have to buy you diamonds, but he shouldn't forget your birthday or anniversary, either.

8 Someone Who Will Compromise with You

crowd, black and white, musician, audience, monochrome photography, He shouldn't be the only one to get his way. He should be willing to compromise with you, so that you're both happy.

9 Someone Who Doesn’t Flirt around

photograph, black and white, person, woman, photography, You should be the only woman in his life. If he can't keep it in his pants, then he doesn't deserve someone as amazing as you.

10 Someone Who Likes You as Much as You like Him

Someone Who Likes You as Much as You like Him You shouldn't be the one who loves more. Your love should be equal.

11 Someone Who Compliments You

Someone Who Compliments You You don't need to be told you're beautiful five times a day. However, he should never make you think that you're unattractive.

12 Someone Who Will Make You Feel Special

black, white, black and white, photograph, photography, He should make you feel like the luckiest girl on the planet. If he doesn't, then you should find someone who does.

13 Someone Who Commits to You

Someone Who Commits to You Some men are afraid of commitment. However, if he really likes you, he should push that fear aside in order to spend his life with you.

14 Someone Who Will Never Say Mean Things to You

Someone Who Will Never Say Mean Things to You It doesn't matter how angry he is. It's unacceptable for him to call you names and make you feel like crap.

15 Someone Who Will Comfort You

Someone Who Will Comfort You He shouldn't run away whenever you show emotion. He should be there to comfort you when you cry.

16 Someone Who Won't Judge You

black and white, monochrome photography, interaction, romance, He shouldn't judge you for the career path you want tot take. He shouldn't judge you for your love of Selena Gomez, either.

17 Someone Who Will Spend the Rest of Their Lives with You

Someone Who Will Spend the Rest of Their Lives with You He should be thankful for the chance to spend the rest of his life with you. It should be his greatest accomplishment.

Never settle for less than you deserve. Have you been called picky in the past?

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Comments

Kranti There is no doubt that every human needs unconditional love but not everyone is so lucky to have it. But God has gifted everyone that opportunity to learnt to love oneself. The one who makes most of that will have best of it.
Kranti If we can not love ourselves unconditionally then how can we expect someone else to do that for us.
Kranti What a human needs is an unconditional love...how mother loves us. It’s always nice to have someone else (irrespective of age or gender of the person) to love you unconditionally but it’s necessary that we love ourselves unconditionally.
Splashhhh Yep! I think its evryones right
Bunny Not sure !
Camille Love can't be equal! Never... When a couple love each other, there's always one whose love is a bit less or a bit much..
Dianisv But nowadays seems so hard to find those qualities en men. Evetything is so disposable! :( dont know up to what point we have to let pass some of them. :(
Dreamawaywme Lol r u kidding me? These are obvious basic qualities that needs to be mutual in a relationship to even be possible in the first place
Marina I just don't agree with #7. Not forgetting a special date and buying presents are two different things. And part of being understanding of one another implies in knowing that gifts, even small ones, are not always possible. Also, we MUST try and be sustainable with our shopping and gift-giving, specially when it's someone who we'll be doing it often.
Splashhhh Not *
Kylee This was such a sweet article!
RedAnoGirl Not little gifts tho idrc bout that