7 Obvious Signs a Guy is Flirting with You ...


Have you ever wondered if that nice guy that you have a crush on is flirting with you?

Even if it’s quite hard to read body language at all times, there are a few ways that most men unconsciously and sometimes, even consciously, let you know that they like you.

There are a lot of studies which show that most people are pretty awful at flirting, since 80% of people can identify when someone is not flirting with them but only 36% of men and 18% of women can tell when the other person is flirting.

When you are attracted to someone, you usually pay attention to every little thing that they do or say to decipher what they really mean.

Here are 7 obvious signs a guy is flirting with you that you should consider:

1. You Catch Him Staring

A guy who likes you and especially one who flirts with you will always look at you.

Do you often catch him staring at you from across the room?

Well, that’s a good sign!

A guy who is interested in you will spend a lot of time talking to you or at least, staring at you.2

Their eyes will be wide open and very expressive throughout your entire conversation.

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Now these days guys are usually straight forward, and will tell a girl they like them. Well at least all my guy friends do when they see a girl they like. As for me they straight tell me I'm the greatest best friend they ever had.
@Einstein If you really like this guy, he engages in this type of flirty behavior, I think he's looking for a sign from you that you are interested in him! One of you has to make a more decisive move, in my experience, a guy like the one you are describing would welcome a sign from you that you'd like to be more than friends. Yes, it is a risk for you, but there is no reason to wait for him to "make the first move." Even if things don't turn out the way you expect, you will be surprised at how empowering it will be for you to have been the more aggressive person. You will realize that you have very little to lose, and everything to gain!
The guy I like does all of these with me but I feel like that's just his personality. I guess I've never noticed the hands on the hips thing and the touching he does but never the kiss thing. So what do you guys think? Could it just be natural for some guys to have a flirty personality and to do most of these things? Or could he be interested?
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