Great Ways to Keep Your Cool around Hot Guys!

Great Ways to Keep Your Cool around Hot Guys!
By Emily • Nov 24, 2024

Being around someone you find attractive can be mega intimidating, but you have to remember that everyone gets nervous sometimes. Luckily, we have some tips that can help you be cool and confident around your crush!

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1. Embrace the Awkward

Most people are so scared about coming across as awkward or having lulls in conversation, but try and think that this is bound to happen. If you accept it, you’ll come across as genuine. And of course, things will get less awkward as you go along.

2. Remember, They’re Human Too

It’s easy to think of boys as an alien species 👽 (and sometimes they act like it) but remembering that they are human just like you can really help to calm your nerves.

3. Work on Body Language

Making small changes to your body language can have an impact on how you feel and how others see you. Try standing up straight (no slouching!) and making eye contact 👀 Practice makes perfect!

4. Smile through It😊

We definitely understand that smiling isn’t always natural, but remembering to do so can display confidence and actually impact how you’re feeling subconsciously. Frowning can actually cause you to feel sadder.

If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.

5. Ask Lots of Questions❓❓

A way to be less nervous is to direct the attention off of you. The easiest way to do this is by asking lots of questions about the guy’s interests and hobbies. It obviously also lets you get to know them better, so it’s a win-win.

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6. Wear Your Favorite Clothes 👗

It makes sense that if you like your outfits, you’ll feel more confident in general. If you know you’re going to see that hot guy, then dress to impress and work it.

7. Get out of Your Head

Building things up in your mind is an easy thing to do, but it only adds unnecessary stress and worry. Try to visualize the situation in a positive light and see a positive outcome 💭 If you can think it, you can do it.

These are just a few things to take into account when talking to an attractive guy. Of course, the biggest thing to keep in mind is just to be you, as cliché as that might sound. Remember that Rome wasn’t built in a day and it will get easier in time! Good luck!!😘

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I was recently on a meet and greet weekend date with a guy who flew to see me from out of state after dating online over three months. Talk about nervous!! How do you keep your cool with a guy you are super attracted too without chasing him away first date

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