Cuddling allows you to feel physically and mentally close to your partner. It's a form of intimacy that isn't sexual, which is what makes it so special. It's a nonverbal reminder that you and your partner love and care for each other. The next time he visits your house, here's how you can make your cuddle sessions even sweeter:
You don't have to strip off all of your clothes until you're completely naked. However, the less clothing you wear while cuddling, the better. That way, you'll have more skin on skin contact that will make the moment more intimate. Besides, now that it's summer, it's easy to get hot and you don't want to sweat all over your partner.
Although cuddling is the comfiest way to lay, it can be unbearable if you contort yourselves into the wrong positions. Make sure that you're not resting directly on your partner's arm, or else they'll end up going numb. If you're the one who's uncomfortable, don't be afraid to ask your partner to move. There's more than one way to cuddle, so you can experiment until you find a position that's comfortable for you both.
Your boyfriend doesn't have to be the big spoon, just because he's the man. It's just as comfy to switch things around and have you be the big spoon while your man is the little spoon. He'll love the change of pace as much as you do.
You don't have to fall asleep cuddling. You can chat away while you're holding onto each other. Of course, since you're so close, you should wait until later to gossip about your friends and your favorite television shows. Instead, it's the perfect time to bring up all the things you love about your partner. If you can seductively whisper it into his ear, it's even better. Just turn your cuddling session into a compliment fest.
If you're facing your partner, you can kiss him on the forehead or smack dab on the lips. If you're facing the opposite direction, you can grab his hand to kiss the back of it. Either way, it'll be a sweet gesture that'll remind him you love being around him.
You don't have to save all of your favorite songs for your make out sessions. You can listen to them while you two are cuddling in bed together in order to make the scene feel like a romance movie. The right relaxing songs could even help you two fall asleep in each other's arms.
Most couples fall asleep after they make love. However, there's nothing stopping you from cuddling and then transitioning to making love (as long as you're old enough and responsible enough to be sexually active). Don't be afraid of cutting your cuddling session short, because you can go right back to holding each other once the fun is over.
Cuddling is a great way to bond with your partner, because it allows you to kiss and talk and feel close all at the same time. What's your favorite thing about cuddling with your partner?
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