If you never go on second dates, it may not be the man's fault. You could have something to do with it. According to Bustle, here are a few signs you're not the best when it comes to dating:
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Your Dates Never Make Follow-up Plans & You Never Try to Make Them Either
You can't expect the man to always make the moves. If you want to see him again, then you should take initiative and text him first. It's nothing to be embarrassed about. In fact, men tend to like women who take the lead.
There’s More Silence than There is Talking
It takes two people to make a date great. If you never respond to what he's saying, then how can you expect him to ask for a second date? There's nothing wrong with being shy. However, you should try to contribute to the conversation.
You Can't Remember Which Date Said What
If you've been going out with a few men at a time, you need to remember which one of them likes football and which one likes the ballet. If you get them mixed up, they won't be happy. It'll make them think that you don't care about them enough to listen to what they have to say.
You Leave as Soon as the Check Gets to the Table
Don't be in a rush to get out of there. If you run away as soon as you get the chance, your date is going to assume that you hate them. Then he won't ask you on a second date, because he'll assume that you're going to reject him.
You Use the Same Lines for Everyone
No two men are the same. That means the same lines aren't going to work on every single date. You need to actually pay attention to him, so you can learn what he likes, and then think of things to say that work with his personality.
If you're bored, you should do something to make the date a little more exciting. Bring up an interesting topic or ask him to dance. He might be a great guy that just needs a little push.
You’re Talking Non-Stop
You shouldn't do all the talking. Give him a chance to speak. Otherwise, it'll feel less like a date and more like a therapy session.
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