8. You’re Excited

Moving in together is a big step, but it’s also an exciting one! If you have serious concerns about your relationship or if you feel you’re not ready to share your space, pay attention to these feelings! You don’t want to rush something like moving in together.

If you’re genuinely excited and love the idea of learning how to live together – that means begging him to put the seat down, letting him see you without makeup, and a number of other lovely new experiences – then you may well be ready for this step.

Moving in with anyone is a big decision. Moving in with your partner brings a number of additional things to consider. Make sure you’ve done your due diligence and really determined if you and your boyfriend are both ready to move in together. Consider what it means for your relationship and how it can actually bring you much closer. Are you thinking of moving in with your partner? Or, if you already live together, what tips do you have for other readers thinking of making the move?


@Teri Fox I disagree. I'm from a college town where 90% of the people are a very strict religion (no living together before marriage). Can't tell you how many people I hear regret their marriage decis...
@Teri Fox i would have to disagree! You shouldn't marry someone if you're not even sure that you can live with them for the rest of your lives. But it's all up to personal preferences in the long run, I guess!☺
Teri Fox
Number one should be you're married.
@Isabella Rossignuolo there are lots of things you can do to get the use to the idea of one another before moving in together. Rub them both down with a cloth or towel and swap the towels so they know...
Abigail Jaiyeola
@Isabella Rossignuolo, Oh gosh!! Thats a problem right!! Get the cats to like each other so they can play and you two and do whatever ?! just a thought
Abigail Jaiyeola
most of the times when the man and woman moves in together they end up having a kid or kids then the idea of marriage flys out the man head. I pefer to move in when we are engaged!
Isabella Coles
Here's another thought: if there are pets involved! I would love to move in with my man but he has a cat who is a really jealous type (my cat has to go with me when i move out), and it's just impossib...
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