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I think every guy watches porn. At least my boyfriend does and I don't see how that's a big issue.

I don't mean to be condescending and yes the damages that porno causes you are important but also think of women out there who wish they didn't have to make a living by being sex slaves. Thanks

NOT ALL GUYS WATCH PORN AND IT MOST CERTAINLY IS NOT NORMAL!!!! Our morally relativistic society wants to sell us on the concept that it is OK but it is a lie. Ladies, educate yourselves - you deserve better. Your BF is lying to you or associating with other souls who have lost their way if he is trying to get you to believe anything about porn is acceptable. The research is there if you look for it. Porn actually changes the neuroplasticity of the brain - eventually, a real person is unable to measure up to the pixels on the screen. It is a fantasy, the leading cause of divorce and broken relationships today. A real man who values you for who you are would not consider something like this that degrades all women. Read this entire thread - many extremely well written posts by those who are dealing with the fallout.

Ok so it's obviously most of us agree #5 is wrong but so is #7! Disagreements need to be resolved. Arguments need to be talked about when both parties are cooled down. How are you supposed to grow as a couple is these hints are never talked about?

For me, not watching porn is a sign of respect. My man gets my body whenever he wants. He doesn't need to get sexual satisfaction from anyone other than me. We've had this discussion and thankfully we agreed. It's a very important issue to me and he put me and my feelings ahead of that disgusting habit and if he hadn't then I would've left. In my eyes, watching porn is like saying that I am not enough and he has to go elsewhere for sexual satisfaction.

And I have to disagree with number 5, porn is unacceptable.

@rad-dizzle @ayra judgmental much? Me and my boyfriend have never been in relationships before and we were in our early 20s when we met. We both watched porn occasionally before the relationship started (less than once a month). So I know he watched porn. But since we got close, both of us stopped watching. And he treats me and my family with respect, is there for me whenever I need him, never talks down to me, and is a very caring and loving person. Don't tell me about my standards. Only because my definition of cheating differs from your definition of cheating, you'll trash talk me? There are more than 7 billion people in this world; not every single person is going to have the same opinion. Learn to accept other views and opinions too. Live and let live girls!

I watch porn with my hubby ;)

All guys watch it.. And so many articles call it normal.. And maybe it is.. Maybe not.. But I DO feel a pinch when I find my guy watched porn.. N then I feel the pressure to 'feel normal'.. Initially in our relationship we would argue about it.. But he was and is always clear that ALL guys do it.. N frankly he is standing his ground problem is I am unable to make my peace or opinion about it.. So .. Yeah hurts but guess not as much now..

I think we found the feminist😂