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7 Ways to Deal with Leaving Your Boyfriend for College ...

By Heather

It is that time of year, when you might have to leave your boyfriend for college. Learning all of the ways to deal with leaving your boyfriend for college isn't easy, but there are some tips to do it! If you are leaving your boyfriend for college this fall, don't worry ladies, I've got all of the tips and tricks that can help you cope and help you pull through!

1 Try Long Distance

Firstly, have you thought about trying the long distance thing? I did this for quite a while with my partner and now we've been together for almost 6 years! Long distance is hard, but as long as you follow a plan, it should be easier to be away from each other! So ladies, learning to leave your boyfriend for college might be hard, but a long distance relationship might make it bearable.

2 Have a Plan for the Future

Whenever you are leaving anyone for an extended period of time, you want to make sure that you have a plan for the future. Have you and your boyfriend talked about the future? Have you even talked about anything revolving the time you leave? If not, it might be a good conversation to have this summer!


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3 Do You Want to Stay Together?

The age old question, do you two still want to be together? When you are thinking about leaving your boyfriend for college, do you think you want to immerse yourself in the entire college life or do you think that you still want to be with him always? It's a valid question and one you should bring up!

4 Talk about It

Having the conversations about the future and what you two are going to do during the college days is extremely important. If you are just finishing up your senior year or you are heading to college in the fall, talk to him about it! Who knows, he is probably panicking about what you two are going to do too!

5 Bring Him with You

When you are about to leave your boyfriend for college, there is always the option, if you are graduating together to go to the same school! Who knows, maybe you could even get on the same floor together? If you are serious about your boyfriend, bringing him with you to school could be an option!

6 Trust Him

If you do decide that you want to try the long distance thing, one of the biggest things to keep in mind is trust. You've got to be able to trust that he'll be faithful, trust that he won't do anything, otherwise it'll never work.

7 Decide if It is Going to Work

When you're going to leave your boyfriend for college, you've got to make sure that you have decided that it is or isn't going to work. Have a conversation with your man and see what he thinks. Does he think that this is going to work? Do you think that it is going to work?

There you have it ladies, all of the different ways that you can cope with leaving your boyfriend for college! There are tons of options, you just have to pick the one that works for you. So ladies, how are you going to cope leaving your boyfriend for college?

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