Have you ever questioned whether you are in love with him or whether it’s the idea of love that’s keeping you together? If you have at least one of the following signs, then it’s time for you to realize that maybe it’s the idea of love that’s keeping you together. Here are 5 signs you're not in love with him anymore.
1. HE‘S USUALLY the ONE WHO MESSAGES YOU
Have you ever had days where if he doesn’t message, you can last the whole day without speaking to him? Well, then perhaps you’re not so in love after all.. If you were really in love, you would care about him and want to know if he’s okay, and all those little things like how his day went etc. instead, you’re just waiting for him to message you and let you know that he cares about you and loves you.
2. HE‘S USUALLY the ONE CALLING
Is it you who calls or is it him? Because surely if you were in love with him you would want to hear his voice? Well, that’s what someone would want if they were truly into you. If it’s him who’s always calling you, that’s a sign that shows he wants to hear your voice and feel your presence. However, if you’re not excited to pick up his calls or eager to call him as soon as you have a free moment, are you really in love with him? Think about that.
3. When YOU‘RE TOGETHER, HE‘S MORE AFFECTIONATE
Have you had that time where you’re out together and he just wants to grab your hand or kiss you and you felt hesitant? Then maybe you’re just starting to realize that the affection is fading away. That is to say, that surely if you were so in love with him, you’d want his attention and to hold hands in public or kiss as many times as you can? Well if that’s not the case, perhaps your feelings are telling you that you are not in love with him.
4. HE‘S the ONE MAKING FUTURE PLANS
Is it him who’s talking about the future all the time? If you’re not thinking about the future with him or your long-run plans about how you’re going to spend your life growing old or having a family or even getting married then perhaps you’re not so in love with him after all. If you were in love with him you would be thinking about the future, about your wedding and how you’re going to grow old and have a family etc.
5. If HE PROPOSED to YOU RIGHT NOW, WHAT WOULD YOU SAY?
This last one is a tricky one. I want you to imagine that he just proposed to you. Now, what would you say? Would it be a yes or a no? Because it’s this final sign of you leaning towards a no that’s making you realize you may not love him is as much as you thought you did. At a stage of proposal you would evaluate all the pros and the cons about him, but would you really be willing to dedicate the rest of your life to him? The answer to that question will clarify your doubts about whether you truly love him or whether you were just afraid to be alone.