Compatibility and chemistry. Two words used to define an unspeakable and unseen connection (or lack of) between two people. The two words are often used interchangeably, but they’re not the same thing. I think it’s important to understand the difference. Agreed? Read on Stalkers.
The thing to remember is that while chemistry might be temporary and in the moment, ultimate compatibility will last forever.
Sometimes you can be blinded by the strong chemistry you have with someone, choosing not to see all of the negative impacts that a relationship could have.
Chemistry can feel like a hot fiery passion bubbling inside, whereas compatibility can often make you feel like a cool ocean breeze, completely safe and at peace.
Chemistry will make you feel like you want to rip each other’s clothes off, whereas compatibility might make you want to start to plan ahead and organize each other’s lives rather than disrupt them!
With chemistry, the only thing you might have in common is lust for one another, but with compatibility, you will have many shared interests outside of the bedroom like movies and hobbies.
With chemistry, you often have the desire to know every single thing about a person as soon as you meet, but with compatibility it’s more a slow burn at a natural pace.
Chemistry means that you are not bothered by who is voting for to be President, but compatibility means that you take much more notice of the things that could affect your relationship long term.
With chemistry, you might wonder who on earth you are going to get past his loud snoring, but with compatibility you can easily see pasts his flaws to the bigger picture.
Chemistry might force you to go to an event that you don’t want to just so that you can have fun in bed afterwards, but compatibility means that you are both happy to go to the event in the first place.
Chemistry can lead you to not caring that he stinks of garlic from his lunch, but compatibility means that he won’t have had garlic because he already knows that you don’t like it.
Chemistry is not caring how uncomfortable you are in bed because you just want to be near him, but compatibility is both of you making sure the other is comfortable!
Chemistry can be seen as a single candle trying quickly to light 25 more, whereas compatibility can be seen as a roaring campfire that has plenty of logs nearby to keep it burning.
With chemistry, you are always wondering when it is going to fizzle out, but with compatibility, you are 100% sure that this is going to go for a long, long run.
Chemistry is a fireball candy that gives you a cheap thrill but might leave your burned, while compatibility is an everlasting gobstopper than continues to bring you sweetness.
Chemistry is ‘right now’, while compatibility is ‘just right’!
Chemistry makes you want to take him straight to bed, while compatibility makes you want to take him to meet your parents!
With chemistry, you don’t mind getting covered in sand and seaweed for a romp on the beach, but with compatibility he will have brought along a big picnic blanket for your comfort!
Chemistry might force you to make suspect decisions with regards to your priorities, but compatibility means that your relationship with him fits perfectly in to your life.
Chemistry is like rock climbing and being terrified to look down, but compatibility feels like a casual stroll to the top of a cliff where you can behold a stunning view!
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