Facts about Losing Your Virginity for Girls Who Are Worried It Will Change Them ...

I don't have anything against people who do drugs, and have done some myself. But at the end of the day, it is illegal. Whether they choose to or not is not the point, its illegal. If someone chooses to murder it doesn't make it any less of a crime, like I said, yes, it's there choice. But it's still a crime, and it can lead to very serious dangers, including death. The author was simply saying sex is not a bad thing, it's not going to hurt you physically, or in the view of the law (when done consensual you), and drugs and stealing will. You can't go to jail for two adults having consensual sex, but you can go to prison for years for drugs.

I think people should wait until they are married. It's supposed to be a special moment to cherish with your partner after you get married. And you don't loose it to someone who might just be using you.

Wow! This needs to be discuss with teens nowadays.

Also that you won't get "loose" the vagina opens during arousal, and tightens back to normal when done. So all the boys saying "she's loose" are incredibly uneducated and don't know how to arouse a girl. The more turned on the more your vagina stretches. So if you're not "loose" youre not aroused enough.

Yes I agree with Annabelle, unfortunately there is still a double standard especially in a lot of cultures around the world that it's ok for a man to do what he wishes but when a woman does she's a tramp. And unfortunately a lot of guys brag about popping a girls cherry, so word gets around very quick.

Alka, We are sexual beings and that is one of the gifts we have been given as man and woman, but please don't compare us to all mammals. We have been given a soul, a superior intellect, and fee will, which makes the human race much different than any other creature on the planet. What we do with these gifts is our choice, as is the decision to use or abstain from drug use. Unfortunately, our society has relegated sex as a mechanical exercise bent only on pleasure to be acted upon whenever our emotions get the urge - just like animals! We are missing the procreative gift, the spiritual union between husband and wife in marriage the way it was intended. This takes discipline, will, emotional intimacy with a partner for a lifetime commitment. I know from past experience . . . I've made the mistake myself. It isn't easy, but you will save yourself much heartache if you can foster a healthy spiritual life now.

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@Jessica your comment is perfect...

4 isn't true my best friend lost her virginity and some how everyone found out and they harassed about it so much that she moved schools

If you and your partner are mature enough then no others will not know, but for some younger people the maturity is not always there and when people find out they may label you as something you are not so just make sure you are with the right person