9 Things You Should Never Change about Yourself for a Man ...


I think we can agree that there are some things you should never change about yourself.

As smart as we might be, sometimes we'll meet someone we want to be with so much that we find ourselves doing things we never thought we would.

Don't get me wrong;

this isn't always a bad thing.

I can think of all sorts of things in our lives-habits, relationships, bad '80s hairstyles-that SHOULD be changed, but we just need a little “push.” If he's that “push,” fine.

It's just that there are some things you should never change about yourself to hold onto a man.

If you think this doesn't happen, think again.

Here are a few examples.

1. Your Values

These are probably the most important things you should never change about yourself for a man.

For instance, does he pressure you to have sex when you want to wait until you're married?

That was the case with me.

Does he think women should be “barefoot and pregnant” while you want a career?

Is he bothered by your relationships with your family?

If he's not willing to accept these basic things about you, toss him and find someone who will.

Your Dreams


True that 👍
Sapna Pathak
Lovely article
Rashny Poovi K
I had an ex who hated my nail art hobby until I completely lost interest in it and I became so bored and just didn't do anything else as a result It sure went downhill from there. I'm glad I'm not with him anymore. Never ever change yourself for a man, he should love you for who you are and what you love to do. And it should be mutual.
Lilia Antor
I frankly don't understand women who give in too easily. I've known a couple of them who would say something like: I don't wear makeup because he wants me not to. I've been with a control freak, too. He tried to make me give up things I really enjoyed doing and dedicate my free time to him and his needs.needless to say, when I met my husband I instantly understood he was the one, cause he gives me total freedom to do what I want to do and be who I wanna be. At the same time I admit it's our fault, too- many of us would rather become someone else not to be alone, and that's the issue to fight against
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