2. Your Dreams

Your dreams are probably going to change on their own as life goes on.

For instance, I used to dream of being a singer, even though I can't carry a tune in a bucket.

A college friend of mine once dreamed of being a veterinarian but is now happy as the stay-at-home mom of three boys.

We never know how things will to turn out.

However, don't give up on something you truly love for a man without having something to replace it with.

Otherwise you will either grow to resent him or find yourself so miserable you won't be able to get out of bed in the morning.

They're both sucky options.

Your Weight


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Off a bit, but Rashny how did you come about that hobby? As for giving in too easily, I hear you about being with a control freak because of being afraid to be alone. That's actually one of my worst fears. Not to where I'd put up with abuse or anything like that again, but I've never been single for long since I started dating so it would be pretty alien for me. Some people probably stay because they don't feel they deserve or can get any better than whatever guy they're with.
My ex wanted me to change my values/morals on my outlook! He was raised by hippies basically! He called it I should be opened minded. But a lot of the ppl he was friends with I didn't prove or understand! No wonder we were on n off for 3 years!
True that 👍
Sapna Pathak
Lovely article
Rashny Poovi K
I had an ex who hated my nail art hobby until I completely lost interest in it and I became so bored and just didn't do anything else as a result It sure went downhill from there. I'm glad I'm not with him anymore. Never ever change yourself for a man, he should love you for who you are and what you love to do. And it should be mutual.
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