7 Ways to Distinguish if You Love Him with Your Head or Heart ...


To listen to the head or heart, that is the question. Some people fall in love instantly while others are more cautious. But what is the driving decision maker when it comes to love: the head or heart? Find out which to pay closest attention to.

1. Do You Love Him or the Idea of Him?

To find out if your head or heart is in love with him, ask yourself: Do you love him or the idea of him? Sure it takes time to truly fall in love with a person but reflect on your intentions about the relationship. If you feel that you are in love with the idea of being with him because he’s Mr. Popular or puts on a tough guy act while he’s around you, you may only be loving him with the image your head is showing you.

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@Angelia, i think sometimes women fall in love with the boy they can't have because it's part of the challenge and it's part of the thrill. maybe deep down you only wanted him because you couldn't hav...
This is so true
Maria Morena Pobocan Manalastas
I love your article. So true
@Op12 yes like i felt so strong for him before and now that he puppies me around everywhere and he never would say anything to hurt me the feelings are slowly going away. Maybe its bc i love joking ar...
@Angelia maybe you should leave your thoughts apart and just act in terms of how you feel towards him. I didnt really understand if you are together now or not but it sounds like you wanted him so bad...
i have had a crush on this guy for over a year now. When i like someone, i really like them. I try not to like people at all costs. Ive been trying to get over him for so long, like it was all just 'f...
i can relate to number 5! Thank you
This just so true 😊
I thought I was in love with my head when after a year and few months with my boyfriend and so after rocky periods we had I decided to break up just as quite and peaceful as we got together thinking t...
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