You shouldn't assume that a guy wants to be your boyfriend, just because he's kissed you or hooked up with you. Some men are players. They'll use you for sex, even though they have another girl that they're more committed to. Here are a few signs that you're just his side chick:
1. He Won’t Hang out with You in Public
If he won't walk through the mall with you or go out to eat, he probably doesn't want to be seen with you. If he gets caught cheating, then the charade is over.