Falling in love is wonderful, but falling out of love? Not so much. Maybe that's why we avoid it at all costs, staying in a relationship way longer than we should before admitting we've fallen out of love. If you think it might be over, but you're just not sure, there are a few telltale signs you just don't love him anymore. How many of these boxes can you check? ☑️
Every little thing he does just annoys you, and you struggle to remember what it was like before he was so irritating.
In the beginning, you couldn't get enough of your man, but now you've started avoiding sexytime.
When he says "I love you," rather than butterflies, you feel anguish, guilt, or just nothing at all.
Along with the lack of sex drive, you also can't stand it when he tries to snuggle up to you, or even just hold your hand.
You suddenly avoid talking about the future — especially your future together — and when he talks about it, you get antsy and change the subject.
Have you started to disconnect from his family and friends?
Next time you're with the squad, try to notice how many times you casually throw your man under the bus. Does it happen more often than you care to admit?
Being around other, happier couples makes you uncomfortable — why is that? It never bothered you before, but now you just want to gag... or look away.
You may not be technically single — okay, you're not single at all — but you find yourself playing the field a little.
Usually you're the peacemaker, always trying to avoid conflict. But now? You're constantly picking a fight with him.
Date night (and every other night) with your man is starting to feel like a chore, another task to be accomplished, rather than a joy.
I'm not talking about your latest Netflix binge — you and he are more like friends, or roommates, rather than lovers.
You used to address issues head on, but now, you really don't care about fixing problems.
Do you avoid including him in your plans, the ones later this week and later in life?
You used to be a little jealous and possessive, but lately you don't even care where he goes, or who he talks to or flirts with.
Do you ever find yourself wishing you hadn't gotten that apartment together, or that cute terrier, or that bank account?
In summary, your entire relationship, in every aspect, feels like a living, breathing eye roll.
So how many of these did you recognize? If most of these describe how you feel, it's time to end it, sweetie — you've fallen out of love. But it's okay! It just means you're ready to spend some time on your own, then be ready for your next adventure. Are there any other signs I've missed?
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