5. You Feel Guilty about Canceling on Them

You Feel Guilty about Canceling on Them

Not guilty enough to stop canceling, though. It's amazing how often guilt makes us do things we know we don't want to do, just because we don't want to hurt someone else. That's admirable, but remember this: you deserve to be happy, too, and sometimes it will be at the expense of someone else's happiness. It happens. It sucks, but it does happen.

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Candee Chow
I've ghosted on some creepy guys before. Definitely wasn't something I wanted to do but the guy was super interested and wouldn't get a clue even tho I've told him I wasn't interested him in any way. ...
Princess A
I have been ghosted before and it really sucks. Just be upfront about things, and your not interested then tell me, ghosting just hurts and it's not very nice. All I can say about ppl that ghost need to grow up
It's funny that this came out right as I got ghosted for the first time. I didn't even know about this term, but it's exactly what happened. I think I deserved an explanation and a simple it's over. B...
I think ghosting is a cop out. Be upfront if you don't want to talk to the guy. He's going to assume you are busy not assume you don't like him.
I been ghost by the same person for years and I finally got the message he use to give me things to pop back up in my life and I loved him so much I let him.each time he did it it tore me apart. I fin...
Ghosting is really hard on the heart for the person being ghosted. Unless they are some crazy stalker, the other person deserves an explanation, no matter how many dates or how long into a relationship you are
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