1. You Need to Send Selfies

This will make it seem like you two aren't even apart.

2. Play Games Together

Quizzes, video games, anything that is fun. Date night can be game night!

3. You Can't Keep Your Feelings inside

If there is something bothering you, you've GOT to spill it. Seriously.

4. Have Conversations CONSTANTLY

This is how you are going to last. For serious.

5. Create a Private Blog and Share Your Thoughts Together

Great idea! Especially nowadays.

6. Talk on Instant Messenger (gchat Works Great!)

I did this with my wife!

7. Skype Yourselves to Sleep

And sleep on Skype.

8. Keep a Picture of Them on Your Phone …

That way you can feel like they are right there.

Jealousy loses power when transparency is proactive and reassurance is paired with consistent behavior. Use "You Need to Send Selfies" as a starting habit and refine it as your relationship evolves. For practical ideas, use the long-term relationship generator to keep your plans fresh and intentional.

9. And Change It out Weekly to Keep It Fresh

..and change it often. It'll help close the distance!

10. Never, Ever End a Conversation with Resentment

This is a big one! Pay attention.

11. Don't Keep Score on Who Visits More Often

Someone will always visit more, the other person should make up for that.

12. … the One That Doesn't Visit as Often, Should Make More of an Effort

Text more, call more, write more. If you can't visit, make sure that your partner knows you are invested.

13. Do NOT Play Power Games

This is huge! You can't keep a long distance relationship if you are constantly playing with power.

14. You've Got to Have Trust

Being in a long distance relationship is ALL about trust, especially nowadays with Facebook, Instagram, Tumblr, Twitter. You should trust your partner completely, otherwise, why are you with them?

15. Phone Sex

It's needed. Period. It's needed.

16. Be Aware That You do Have a Life outside of Your Partner

Just because you are with your boyfriend or girlfriend, doesn't mean they control where you go. Just check in with them and let them know what your plans are.

17. Care Packages

Oh god, I did this a LOT when my wife and I were long distance. Notice, I said wife – we made it!