21 Tips on How to Choose between Two Guys ...

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If you don’t know how to choose between two guys, I’m going to enlighten you.

I know this is a really difficult position to be in because it's confusing to everyone involved.

Unfortunately you are going to have to hurt someone that you care about by letting him go and that really sucks.

If you need a bit of help on how to choose between two guys, here’s a couple of good ways to clarify that whirlwind of emotions going through your mind.2

1. Determine the Qualities of Each Guy

One of the best tips on how to choose between two guys is to determine what you want in a partner.

Make a list and write down qualities that you think makes a good partner.

Although we all have a unique criteria when choosing a guy, there are certain qualities that a good guy should have.

Qualities like loyalty, kindness, compassion and helpfulness are must-haves.

Think about which guy actually has the qualities that you are looking for in a long-term partner.

How Compatible Are You?

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Dee
NEED ADVICE**911**My situation is kinda different.. please no judgement.. as I really don't know what to do..this won't be short..in a 8year relationship w/someone who is serving yet another 2-3 year sentence.. love was perfect except the obvious he keeps going back to jail for petty crimes..& thats what scares me..that he will keep going back(trying to plan a family here) my family adored him & he treated me amazing..as I stood by his first bid faithfully in trust that it would never happen again..I turned my loneliness&anger; into a love affair that now has me torn.. currently secretly have a man living w/me..that I've been seeing for over a year.. one that was my eye candy for about 3years but I never dared to cheat..even crazier we work together so it makes things that much more complicated.. secret lover man has 3kids & a whole lot of baby momma drama ugh..is responsible financially.. emotionally ehhh..he has his moments...is really fun & loves life..absolute insane sexual connection..although..during our year of dating managed to get involved with 2other woman that based on a technicality that we are not "official" I overlooked it especially knowing what I was hiding.. he "knows" of my guy but thinks I ended things..yes somehow i fell for him.. head over heels ..in love with him.. he has strong feelings for one of his childs mom...or as he likes to say it.."I'm over her I just don't want no other man raising my kids".. is a super social butterfly when it comes to facebook & social media which drives me insane... but has proved himself somewhat worthy over the past couple months.. 8year now may get released early.. I KNOW I am being unfair by leading both men on.. but at some point you have to be selfish & think about whats best for you & that I cannot decide (not getting younger here) I can't let go of my 8year .. and I'm worried that I may be messing up what me & love affair guy now have.. something we worked our way up too & it wasn't easy.. I feel like a "lady" with new guy.. with 8year I just felt like a babysitter.. but he knows me.. he knows me better then I know myself & is that guy that will stand by my side no matter what.. however .. if I choose him & he hears anything of new guy through neighbors or what have you.. I will be risking new guy for no reason cause 8 year will not accept that.. It just seems easier to start a life with new guy.. but I can't let go of 8 year.. whats worse is that now I am really feeling the pressure of making the decision & the guilt.. I like out burst in tears at any given moment cause I truly don't know what I'm going to do.. yes I have met new guys children only one time though.. & fell in love with them instantly...yes I repeat to him at least 3times a week that if he wants to fix his family then to do it..also giving him the option of clearing my second bedroom so his kids can stay whenever he wants..please no critcism.. if you knew me & what horrible things my love life has been like in the past you would understand.. and I can't afford to make any more wrong decisions & waste time on the wrong guy.. yes I've done wrong with the cheating but I just wanna be happy like anyone else.. please help..
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