10 Ways to Deal with Your Boyfriend Coming out to You ...


Learning how to deal with your boyfriend coming out to you as gay isn't easy, especially if you have a lot of time and energy invested into the relationship.2

Sometimes, when you are gay, you don't realize it in the beginning, so you date someone and even get serious with someone before you realize that it isn't the right relationship for you.

This relationship issue does happen and it's serious.

It's a relationship issue that you do have to deal with if it does happen to you and it has to be dealt with, with care.2

So girls, that is why I came up with the top 10 ways to deal with your boyfriend coming out to you.

1. You May Have Suspected

Some guys are very easy to spot as being gay, but if they are in a relationship with you and having sex with you on a regular basis, it's hard to spot your boyfriend being gay.

One of the things that you do have to watch out for is – how does he treat you after sex?

How does it really feel for him?

Do you feel connected to him?

Do you feel closer?

This is a sign.

Don't Ask 'Why' or 'How'


@Danielle 100% agree
you are not born gay, it is a choice.
Heather Jensen
That is so -- weird! Why would he ever tell his best guy friend that? I'd say that you might need to talk to him a bit. I know it's hard to approach him, but you need to.
Heather, I really need your help!! My boyfriend told his best guy friend he was "breakin up with me", at a friends party... but then told him i think im going to stay with her. He also is still crushin on his ex-girlfriend, and i don't wanna show im jelous or mad, but i just don't wanna lose him over her. How can i get him to some what , "move on over here and focuss on our relationship"..?
Heather Jensen
Hi Ashleigh! Thank you so much for this, that is so true. Whole you can't 'turn' someone gay, as it is not a choice, on the girl's side, she absolutely could be thinking that. Thank you for the great comment!
Wish I had this list last year, ex came out to me by admitting he had slept with another guy. I think it also should be on the list don't go "Did I turn him gay?". I know so many people who asked if I was thinking that, or others who were in my situation who honestly thought it was something they did that turned them off females.
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