10 Ways to Deal with Your Boyfriend Coming out to You ...

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Learning how to deal with your boyfriend coming out to you as gay isn't easy, especially if you have a lot of time and energy invested into the relationship.

Sometimes, when you are gay, you don't realize it in the beginning, so you date someone and even get serious with someone before you realize that it isn't the right relationship for you.

This relationship issue does happen and it's serious.

It's a relationship issue that you do have to deal with if it does happen to you and it has to be dealt with, with care.

So girls, that is why I came up with the top 10 ways to deal with your boyfriend coming out to you.

1. You May Have Suspected

Some guys are very easy to spot as being gay, but if they are in a relationship with you and having sex with you on a regular basis, it's hard to spot your boyfriend being gay.

One of the things that you do have to watch out for is – how does he treat you after sex?

How does it really feel for him?

Do you feel connected to him?

Do you feel closer?

This is a sign.

2. Don't Ask 'Why' or 'How'

I know it's hard when your boyfriend is coming out to you to not ask a ton of questions, especially the 'why' or 'how' type of questions, but he is probably already confused as well, so he probably won't have an answer for you.

It's better all around if you avoid these types of questions girls, I know it's hard, but it's better.

3. Realize It's Natural

Being gay isn't something that you can wake up and choose to be, it's something that is part of your chemical makeup.

I'm gay and I didn't choose to like girls, but I do.

It's something that is natural and something that every gay person has to fight against, so make sure that you realize that it isn't you or anything you did, it is something that they've been hiding.

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