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19 Wicked Ways to Tease Your Man ...

By Heather

If you are completely at a loss for ways to tease your man that are super fun and will keep your sex life and relationship overall interesting, you've got to take a look below! I've come up with all of the different ways to tease your man that really work and that are ideal for any relationship! So, take a look, girls, and let the teasing games begin!

1 Unexpected Affection

Guys don't typically expect a lot of affection from their girlfriends, but if you manage to get a guy off guard with an unexpected tongue-kiss or a subtle touch that is a little proactive, then you'll have the upper hand! This is a great way to tease him no matter where you are and let him know what will happen when you two get home! This is absolutely one of the top ways to tease your man!


Unexpected affection can happen anywhere, but PDA is centered in on public affection! If you are out in public, why not slip your arm around him, hold him a little tighter, sit in his lap when you are in a position to do so while you are out. If you are dancing? Dance a little closer and really tease him that way!

3 Lingerie

I think that lingerie is one of those things that a lot of women forget about, but slipping into a beautiful lingerie piece can really make your guy go crazy! This is especially true if you catch him completely off guard, such as changing into the lingerie as soon as you get home and wearing a robe around until after dinner.

4 Sexy Perfume

There are tons of different perfumes out there that are pretty amazing and can really drive your man completely wild. All you need to do is find the one that works for your body chemistry, one that you know he'll love. It's amazing how a smell can change everything!

5 Toys

Bringing toys and a little excitement into the bedroom is a great way to tease your man! Even just laying out a toy in plain sight in the morning, so that he knows what is coming, will get him thinking about it all day! Give it a try and see what happens.

6 Spontaneous Sex

Who said that you need to plan sex all of the time? Trust me, there are tons of ways to spice up the bedroom sex, but why not just make it completely spontaneous? That's sometimes the very best sex and truthfully, it's sex that you don't need to plan for at all! The best part about this sex? It can happen anywhere at all!

7 Food Fight

Finally, have you ever thought about bringing food into it? Have you thought about a jar of fluff or even some whipped cream in the bedroom? It's a surefire way to tease him and it'll keep things spicy and delicious for days! Just find a great food that you like and give this a try!

8 Pictures

You don't have to wait for him to come home to start teasing him. You can do it while he's still out at work by sending him a picture of yourself. If you're uncomfortable making it a sexy one, snap a photo of the dress you're planning on wearing later or of your beautiful face.

9 Dirty Talk

Men are visual creatures, but that doesn't mean you should ignore the other ways to turn him on. Use your most seductive voice to tell him what you want to do to him. Don't be shy, because the more details you use, the more excited he'll become.

10 Thinking about Him

Shoot him a text to let him know you're thinking about him. It doesn't have to be too provocative, but should get your point across. If you're a fan of emoticons, then a winky face will work just fine.

11 Massage

You don't have to touch him in a sexual way in order to excite him. Get your hands on him by giving him a relaxing back massage. By the end of it, he'll be dying to kiss you as a thank you.

12 Candlelit Dinner

Men can be just as romantic as women are. If you want to make him feel special, create a candlelit dinner for him to enjoy. He'll know right away that you're in a giving mood, so the anticipation of what will happen after the meal will be a great tease.

13 Dance

Dancing in front of him is the perfect way to let him admire your body. You can put on your favorite upbeat song to jump around to, put on something sexual to strip to, or put on something soft to slow dance to. Whatever works.

14 Start and Stop

The best way to tease him is by giving him long, passionate kisses and then stopping. As long as you smile during the pauses to let him know you're teasing him and not rethinking your relationship, it'll get him more eager than ever.

15 On His Lap

If he's watching TV on the couch, try sitting on his lap instead of sitting next to him. The contact should immediately make him want to kiss you. If it doesn't, then you can always initiate the make-out session.

16 Whisper

If you're too shy to talk dirty, you can still use your voice in order to tease him. Whispering is a sensual thing, so if you say something soft into your man's ear, he'll get chills. It doesn't matter what you say as long as your breath tickles his skin.

17 Change of Clothes

If you want to get frisky, try changing in front of him. He won't be able to resist admiring your beautiful body. After seeing it, it'll be impossible for him to keep his hands off of you, so be prepared to get kissed.

18 Memory

Remember that time when you two got steamy in the shower? Mention a nice memory like that to him, and it'll get him thinking about how much fun you have had. Of course, it'll cause him to want to make some new memories.

19 Eye Contact

Eye contact is a magical thing. If you give your man a certain look, he'll be ready to wrap his arms around you. So don't be afraid of looking him directly in the eye. It's what he wants.

So girls, even if you are completely attuned to all of the ways to tease your guy, these are just a few examples! What other tips do you have? Give 'em up! We'd love to hear what works for you and maybe what quirks your partner has!

This article was written in collaboration with editor Holly Riordan.

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