Spotting the signs he is ready to have a family is not necessarily easy, especially if he hasn't exactly stated it right off the bat. If you're ready to have a family and you are wondering if you and your boyfriend are on the same page, you've got to take a look below! I've compiled all of the signs he is ready to have a family for you, so that you can see exactly how he should act or what you should be looking for when you're trying to tell if he wants to have a family!
1. You Both Are Financially Stable
Firstly, girls, before you have a family, you've got to make sure that you are both financially stable. Babies are extremely expensive and you've got to make sure that you are ready for the bills upon bills that you're going to have. Once you are financially stable, there are other signs he is ready to have a family that you can watch out for too!
2. He Keeps Picking out Baby Names
When you are talking about families, does he constantly bring up baby names that he likes and that he has picked out? That means that he's thought of having a kid! He's thought of what it would be like to have a baby in his house and what it would be like to have kids with you. This is another sign he is ready to have a family that you should be on the look-out for!
3. He Mentions 'when You Have Kids' Often
What about when he has a conversation with you, does it include 'what we have kids' or 'when you have kids'? Does he use that phrase at all? That's another sign he is ready to have a family that you can be sure of! A guy that doesn't want a kid won't mention anything about them!
4. He Has a 5-Year Plan
Typically, when you are trying to have a family or you are thinking about having a family it involves a lot of planning. My partner and I are right now, planning on kids and we have a five-year plan. Does your boyfriend have a five-year plan? What about a one-year plan? These are all things to think about!
5. He Has a Career Set up
What about his career path? Is he in a good job and he is ready to settle down? Are you planning on getting married? If not, are you living together? These are all things that you're going to want to think about and these are all signs he is ready to have a family. Once he is in a good job and has a good career going, that's the time to start thinking about kids!
6. He Constantly is Offering to Babysit His Nieces/Nephews
Does he want to gain the practice of having kids by constantly asking if he can watch his nieces or nephews? Does he want to make sure that this is something that he really wants? That's another sign girls! If you see that he is constantly asking if he can bring the kids over, that's something to look out for!
7. He Talks to His Parents about Being Grandparents
Do you notice that when you are around his parents or even your parents, he constantly brings up 'when they are grandparents'? That isn't normal behavior from a boy that isn't ready for a family girls! If he is engaging the soon-to-be-grandparents already, that's a great sign that you are on the same page!
8. He is Researching Baby Birthing
What about his research? Does he want to know every single step of the birthing process? Does he constantly look up how everything fits together and how everything really comes out? These are all signs he is ready for a family! Who knows, maybe he is really just trying to understand what you go through when you are pregnant!
9. He Says It
Finally, the last sign girls is all about him. Does he just say that he is ready for a family? Does he admit it to you constantly? This is the easiest way to spot that he is ready to start a family with you!
So girls, is your boyfriend or husband displaying any of these signs he is ready for a family? Is he giving off the vibe? Let us know, are you ready to start a family? Sound off in the comments!