Let’s face it, you’re both red blooded women with needs and desires, and due to the close knit nature of your friendship, it’s pretty likely that at some point or another you and your BFF are going to have a crush on the same guy! So the question is, what to do when you and your friend have the same crush. How should you approach this potentially awkward situation? Are there a set of rules that can guide you through it? Fear not, I am here to help with what to do when you and your friend have the same crush.
1. Don’t Freak out!
The first answer to the question of what to do when you and your friend have the same crush is not to panic. Don’t freak out and go into a spiral! Once the joint crush has been discovered, take a step back and assess the situation. The most important thing to consider here is if the guy has shown any romantic interest in either of you. If he has, then it’s really the done thing to allow chemistry to lead the way. A good friend would step aside if she could see that her crush won’t go anywhere while her friend’s might!